Is it more admirable to go to Harvard and study English, or

 or go to an average university and study engineering?

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So we have two students:

  • Jane was accepted at Harvard to study English
  • Margaret was accepted at X university to study engineering

We can only guess that Jane is probably an amazing personality and student. The fact that she is studying English is irrelevant. If you believe that English is easier than engineering, you are mistaken. For example, try to read a poem that is half a page long and then write a meaningful Essay that is 10 pages long. Mastering the English language is not trivial.

We don’t know much about Margaret. The fact that she is not a Harvard student does not diminish her intellect in any way.

Both Jane and Margaret have the opportunity to excel in their field. Who knows, Jane may become a supreme-court justice and Margaret may be the COO of the next Facebook.

When they grow up and have a career, we will be far better judges. Meanwhile, life goes on. Getting into college is just the beginning.

There is a famous Greek saying by Solon, “Never admire anyone before their end.” (Typically translated as “Call no man happy until he is dead, but only lucky.”) So, please, stop judging people based on where they are admitted in college.

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不會。崇拜不會隻根據一個因素,尤其還是先天的因素占更大比重 -兩女寶媽- 給 兩女寶媽 發送悄悄話 兩女寶媽 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 09/15/2023 postreply 07:30:54

但是相親群說我隻爭朝夕,等到死那是下輩子的事了,哈哈 -CatcherInTheRye- 給 CatcherInTheRye 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/15/2023 postreply 07:34:36

情願坐在哈佛課堂上哭,也不要在州大裏笑! -hhtt- 給 hhtt 發送悄悄話 hhtt 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 09/15/2023 postreply 07:56:00

It's always going to be Harvard, unless the X Univeristy is -beachlver- 給 beachlver 發送悄悄話 beachlver 的博客首頁 (233 bytes) () 09/15/2023 postreply 08:05:37

同意最後一句。看有個帖子是哈佛媽媽說自己的孩子。後麵一串兒問孩子畢業之後幹什麽。 -4657238- 給 4657238 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/15/2023 postreply 08:23:38

Who really cares? -randomness- 給 randomness 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/15/2023 postreply 08:37:17

觀察紫檀就有用,知道娃是藤校的,那說話就是比無名娃父母管用,如果是家長是哈佛的那必須景仰加膜拜了 -Huyou2023- 給 Huyou2023 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/15/2023 postreply 08:53:29

chat gpt 寫的? -wlwt123- 給 wlwt123 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/15/2023 postreply 12:21:00

whats harder: create an app to write anything or write anything -wlwt123- 給 wlwt123 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/15/2023 postreply 12:25:00

.. or write anything about creating an app? -wlwt123- 給 wlwt123 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/15/2023 postreply 12:25:00

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