you need to find your self a good defense attorney, if your hu*****and willing to not testify, you may have a chance, but don't expect they going to drop the case, the prosecutor office will definitely file charge on you, if your attorney can flea a lesser charge, you may be able do probation.
a public defense attorney is no help, moving your money out of joint account will be a mistake.
next time, control your temper, in this type of case, the one lift the finger, is the one lose....