Her bottomline, if she has one,

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is lower than yours.

Itemize your duties (technical and administrative.)  Draw up a list.  Show the list to her.  Point out the administrative ones to see if she agrees with (or minimize them to her liking.)

Set a standard for yourself and strive for that standard, rather than seeking her approval on every small thing.  She is not going to give you that approval because getting the work done is not her priority, but securing her power is.  If it takes her to belittle you and favor others in order to create that toxic environment to distract attention from her less-than-stallar capability, she will not hesitate.

Many bosses have narcissistic personality traits.  Look up the term "NPD" and study this topic may prove beneficial for your ability to deal with it.

Stop feeling dependent on anything.  Otherwise, you are a easy victim of manipulation.

 

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對,還要防備他顛倒黑白,倒打一耙,聯合小團體壟斷資源,合夥欺負人什麽的 -花落悠然- 給 花落悠然 發送悄悄話 花落悠然 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 10/29/2019 postreply 09:58:09

OMG! 你說的太對了!我一直懷疑是這樣,但不確定,如今聽你分析真的是這樣!除了服小做低,我還要注意什麽?多謝多謝, -想象- 給 想象 發送悄悄話 想象 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 10/29/2019 postreply 18:20:49

類單親媽媽,忙完工作又忙完孩子來的,工作不順心牽扯很多精力 -想象- 給 想象 發送悄悄話 想象 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 10/29/2019 postreply 18:22:51

Do not take it personally -One1618- 給 One1618 發送悄悄話 (535 bytes) () 10/29/2019 postreply 19:14:58

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