Recentlyaclosefriend,whomIcouldtalktoaboutanything,hasleftforafarawayplace...nobodytotalktofreelynow.Arealtasteofloneliness.Somuchonejustcan'ttalktoanybody.Havemanyotherfriends,butafraidtotalkto...maybethat'swhytheysay中年男人會撒謊。Onejustcan'thaveabigmouthandfreelytalktoanyone...asignofmaturity....Buttocontitnuetobe"mature",andresponsible,onejusthastolearntoembracetheloneliness...andfocusontask...[
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planning,contemplating,reassessing,etcetc...Afterawhile,what'sreallysignificantisjusttodoit.Putthingsintoaction.Spendthemostofadaydoingthings,insteadofplanningtodothings.Makethedaystasksclear,andaccomplishoneatatime.Bytheendoftheday(sometimesevenlongbefore5:00pm),youmayfindthatyou'vegotalotdoneandyouhavetheextratimetospendwithfriends,toplaysports,tospendwithfamily.AndtocometoWenxuecitytowriteafewl...[
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為了這一步花了很多的心力。崎嶇的路,走了這麽久,自從18年前踏上美國領土。記得當時一句在高校流行的一句話,“踏上美國領土就是勝利."其實根本不知道其後的會是何情何景。話說回來。這一切努力還是值得。總算到了。該是認真思考以後的路了。(打字太慢,這也是今後要修的一課)[
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