寫於女兒婚禮一周年

2019年3月16日我們的女兒披上潔白的婚紗，飽含上帝的慈愛，帶著我們的祝福踏上婚禮的殿堂。

女兒出生的那一天懷抱著她望著她那安詳可愛的小臉， 感謝上帝給了我們一個可愛的小寶貝，祈求上帝讓我們能陪著孩子一起成長，保護她養育她。

她從小就是一個快樂的小寶寶。

女兒既是我們的小棉襖也是逗我們歡樂的開心的果，還是弟弟的好夥伴。姐弟倆從小互相幫助，都能體會和感激父母的付出。感謝上帝在女兒成長過程中一路保守與看顧，努力學習出色地完成學業，同時認真工作積累經驗，從服裝小店到聯邦銀行，從在律師行工作到自己的事務所，無論老板還是上司，同事和顧客都給予她很好的評價與讚賞，感謝上帝引領女兒走在神的正道上。

女兒不僅是我們的貼心小棉襖， 還是媽媽的好朋友， 我們母女可以平等溝通與交流，她可以與媽媽敞開心扉分享她的喜悅與煩惱，理想與追求等。當她將Emory介紹給我們的那一天，我們知道她遇到了愛她的人， 當Emory根據傳統請求家長的允許時， 爸爸提出了七項要求， 最重要的第一條是:愛上帝我們的神， 第二是愛我們的Amy.

在籌備婚禮的日子裏， 我們幸福地享受每一個過程， 陪著女兒定婚紗，布置教堂等。 望著女兒穿上婚紗那俏麗的模樣，淚水湧出了眼睛，是高興是不舍， 我們的寶貝帶著我們的祝福與神的愛開始了新生活。

 

樂曲中含著幸福的淚水望著女兒挽著先生的手步入教堂，將女兒交托到Emory的手中，在上帝麵前他們立下婚姻的盟約。

 

雙方家長伴隨著民族音樂，邁著歡快的舞步進入婚宴會場, 爸爸與弟弟的發言帶來了歡笑與淚水, 隨著“ I Loved Her First” 的 樂聲中, 有父親的寵愛於祝福。

I Loved Her First

Look at the two of you dancing that way
Lost in the moment and each other's face
So much in love, you're alone in this place
Like there's nobody else in the world

I was enough for her not long ago
I was her number one, she told me so
And she still means the world to me, just so you know
So be careful when you hold my girl

Time changes everything, life must go on
And I'm not gonna stand in your way

But I loved her first, I held her first
And a place in my heart will always be hers
From the first breath she breathed
When she first smiled at me
I knew the love of a father runs deep

 

And I prayed that she'd find you someday
But it's still hard to give her away
I loved her first

How could that beautiful woman with you
Be the same freckle face kid that I knew
The one that I read all those fairytales to
And tucked into bed all those nights

And I knew the first time I saw you with her
It was only a matter of time

I loved her first, I held her first
And a place in my heart will always be hers
From the first breath she breathed
When she first smiled at me
I knew the love of a father runs deep

And I prayed that she'd find you someday
But it's still hard to give her away
I loved her first

From the first breath she breathed
When she first smiled at me
I knew the love of a father runs deep

Someday you might know what I'm going through
When a miracle smiles up at you
I loved her first