前幾天無意中聽到這歌 想起我爸和我媽了 我父母都是中學老師 我媽一直身體不好 除了上班和給全家做衣服 幾乎不做別的家務 （我媽手很巧 很會做各種衣服 ）我爸對我媽非常好 比對我都好 我和我媽強嘴的時候 他從來都是站我媽那邊 。。。。記得小時候都是我爸帶我去店裏看布料 讓我選自己喜歡的 選好後我爸媽再帶我一起去買 我媽總是能給我做出各種漂亮的衣服來
快二十年了吧 我爸一直和我們住 疫情開始不久他得了帕金森 很快幾乎不能走路和自理能力 又心疼又無助 照顧他的生活起居成了我每天的大事 前不久因病情比較嚴重 我88歲的爸爸從醫院直接轉到了long term home 我一下輕鬆了很多 隻是每隔一天去看他 帶點他喜歡吃的東西 過去一年裏 多少個睡不著的夜裏 回想著過去幾十年和父母一起度過的那些美好又輕鬆的日子 我爸再也不是那個吃苦耐老 愛惜妻小的頂梁柱了 真切體會到了真正的親情和孝心不僅僅是買禮物 陪旅遊等等 而是當他們到了生命的最後一站 我們能不能放下自己的事情和自己小家的利益 親力親為的照顧他們 這個話題是挺沉重的也是很靈魂拷問的
第一次唱英文歌 真覺得頭大 我真不愧是個中國人 唱英文歌都帶著著濃濃的中國味兒
這次高霧聯手主持工作 辛苦了 唱得不好也硬著頭皮發了
祝我們的父親和坦裏的爸爸們節日快樂
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《Like My Father》
I wanna come home to roses
And dirty little notes on Post-its
And when my hair starts turning gray
He'll say I'm like a fine wine, better with age
I guess I learned it from my parents
That true love starts with friendship
A kiss on the forehead, a date night
Fake an apology after a fight
Gets out of the car and holds the door
I wanna slow dance in the living room like
We're 18 at senior prom and grow
Old with someone who makes me feel young
My father loves my mom
I wanna make fun of each other
I wanna rock out to Billy Joel
And flip our kids off when they call us old
He'll accidentally burn our dinner
And let me be the scrabble winner
And when my body changes shapes
He'll say, "Oh my God, you look hot today"
Gets out of the car and holds the door
I wanna slow dance in the living room like
We're 18 at senior prom and grow
Old with someone who makes me feel young
My father loves my mom
Maybe he could teach our daughter
What it takes to love a queen
She should know she's royalty
Gets out of the car and holds the door
I wanna slow dance in the living room like
We're 18 at senior prom and grow
Old with someone who makes me feel young
My father loves my mom
My father loves my mom
