自控能力
(2014-05-27 05:22:30)
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要想在一個職位上長久不是你有很強的執行力,也不是你有很強的公關能力,而是一個人的控製力,可以控製情緒,控製脾氣,控製嘴巴,控製身體,控製欲望,知道什麽時候該說,什麽時候該閉嘴。經曆的事情多了,很多事情都可以看得開了,這時追求的是內心的平靜與強大,不因別人的惡語中傷而反唇相擊,不因別人的有意刁難而氣急敗壞,不因別人的抹黑攻訐而備感侮辱。一雙冷靜而理智的慧眼看穿表象,分析事物的本質,看清事情的真相,找到相應的對策,保全自身,換句話說先謀生存再圖發展。
人活著都不容易,給別人一條路走的時候,也是給自己留了條路,往後的路會越走越寬,培養和樹立優秀的職業素養,不管走到哪裏都是一座豐碑。
認真、負責、感恩、忠誠等優秀品質,堅持3天容易,難的是始終堅持……
說的真好。俺把樓主和秀山的話都收了,留給孩子。
1. Constructively show your leadership and capacity, not meaning show off
2. Proactively improve the department you are managing by: adopt changes, deploy new technologies, promote productivity
3. While staying focused on priorities, enhance communications to other departments and your superiors
4. Bring in values to your organization and work communities
This will establish your leadership position in your organization or your industry, and people will consider you as a leader with a lot values and willl be happy to have you around.