Choose Strong
For Tim.
Thu morning and after a good rest, the heat and pain vanished and my mind turned
clear. I sailed through strength drills with a strong finish. A lingering pain
under the cheekbone above the right upper molars reminded me, however, that it
was not over.
The past week felt like a decade. On the evening of Thu May 20 my right face
started to bulge under the eye and almost doubled in size over night. Things did
not improve the next 24 hours and the upper gum joined the inflation on Sat.
Typically, after a quiet morning, it would warm up and the pain would come
intermittently and worsen toward the evening. For three days, I did nothing
except for watching videos and feeding on watermelons. I even stopped reading
the dictionary.
I heard a long time ago that a man, however great, cannot face calmly his own
toothache. Mediocre in almost every way, I didn't even try and felt no shame
cooping myself up. I had all the time to suffer, self-pity, reflect, and ask:
"Why me? Why now?"
It eventually dawned on me that I had ignored dental health for too long and I
was paying now.
Growing up in the 70s in the Chinese rural north, I learned by observation: none
of the village elders had good teeth, if at all, and concluded that bad teeth
were inevitable as one aged. Grandma did not brush her teeth. Dental hygiene
must have only come after the invention of plastic.
During the great invasion of white flour, rice, and sugar in the 80s and 90s, I was
never alerted to defend myself with regular brushing. The gum disease grew so bad
that around the time of college graduation when I first heard about dental cleaning,
I could suck the gums and spit out blood. Four years later and the first time I
visited a clinic (in Canada), it took Michelle the hygienist one unit to clean only
a quarter of my teeth and I had to come back two more times to finish. She told me
that the way things went, I could lose all my teeth in my late 30s.
Even after that, I did not take ownership and instead delegated dental care to
professionals. Twice a year, I visited the dentist who would advice better habits
which I would practice for a few weeks. Things went on like that for the next 20
years during which I got five wisdom teeth extracted and one denture and one
bridge installed for two central incisors, one up and one down.
The urgency I have felt since awakening to health at age 40 did not carry over
to my mouth. Instead, I believed that a good diet would fix everything, including
the teeth and gums, especially after reading Weston Price. (Price was not wrong
but my incomplete truth only delivered false confidence.) I haven't been to a
dentist for the last three years.
A little knowledge is a dangerous thing, which might be why Socrates claimed
that the only thing he knew was that he knew nothing. Since late 2020, the gums
were giving me one problem after another. I was no longer able to chew almonds
on the right side. I attributed these to over-exercising and dehydration. Recently
as I found, the innocent lemon water, which I tried to replace coffee with, turned
out to be so acidic that it could damage the enamel if one is not careful. In short,
long-term negligence led to last week's rebellion.
OK. I think I finally have got the point, I cannot take my teeth for granted any more.
Good thing is that I should be able to practice what I know. Thank You!
Thank you, stillthere, for reading and recommending baking-soda water from your
experience. I'll definite try it.
The bigger problem for me has been the lack of a good dental hygiene habit.
With the painful memory still fresh, I was able to brush and floss regularly the
past two weeks. Things look promising.
Take care, enjoy the quality and quantity of your life!
Congratulations on your husband's great dental health, which is a reminder
that people are not equally endowed. My teeth, according to the dentist, are
strong but not smooth and therefore easy to trap food. Diet is still a big
factor, if not the whole story. We live in a hostile and predatory world.
Knowledge is meaningless until turned into action and I have resolved to
1. Rinse or brush after coffee or any acidic or sugary drink,
2. Floss after each meal, and
3. Always keep the truth in sight.
I am going to see the dentist if just to keep track and get his regular
comments.
My husband hasn't seen the dentist either for years, but he has perfect teeth, not one cavity or any gum disease. Conclusively it is the good gene passed from his dad:)) Diet plays only a little role I guess. In your case you just need to regularly see the dentist. Find a good and trustworthy dentist in your area and follow his or her advice. Good luck, my friend.