你的孩子能填出來下列填空. 你能嗎?

你的孩子能填出來下列填空. 你能嗎?

 

LOL: laughing out loud

BRB: ___ _____ _____

MUSM: ____  ____ ____ ____

A/S/L: ____, ____, __________

BF: ______________

TAW: _____ ____ _______

LULAS: ____ ____ ____ __ ____

POS: ______ ___ _______

WTGP: ____ __ __ _________?

LMIRL: ____ ____ __ ____ ______

 

據估計, 每年約有20%的孩子會受到網上的性騷擾. ¹

互聯網絡是一個無價的巨大資源. 但是, 的確也存在一些值得我們重視的嚴重問題. 比如: 網上性尋獵者和網上皮條客.

 

網上性尋獵者: 可能是任何人. 互聯網允許任何人匿名上網, 也不能防止成年人故意掩藏TA們的年齡, 性別, 身份, 和上網目的等.

 

網上皮條客: 無端的, 不請自到的, 或是你不希望可以被孩子接觸到的那些誘使孩子們從事性活動, 或者進行色情交談, 或者是發布不恰當的個人性信息.

 

教育自己的孩子如何保護自己, 不受這些網絡的侵擾, 是很重要的一課. 教會孩子如何保護自己最好的的辦法, 就是和孩子交談, 並且恰當地參與孩子的活動.

 

-        象保護你的孩子在現實中不會受到侵害一樣去保護你的孩子不受網絡的侵害.

 

-             對孩子上網予以知道, 並一起製定紀律.

-             要知道你的孩子在和什麽人交談.

 

-        認識互聯網.

 

-             熟悉你的孩子經常會接觸到的或經常使用的軟件, 程序, 經常訪問的網站.

-             考慮使用internet filters 或 blocks.

 

-        把家庭使用的計算機放在公共的房間, 以便監督和指導孩子上網.

 

-        限製孩子的上網時間, 以保證孩子的上網安全. 告訴孩子上網的好處和危險, 確保你的孩子理解並能作出正確的選擇.

 

-        告訴孩子, instant messaging (IM) 隻能用來和學校的同學或其他熟悉的朋友聊天. 什麽叫 “熟悉”, 是指能麵對麵的認識, 並且, 是家長認可的. 隻是在網上結實的, 聊的開心的 “朋友”, 不是 “熟悉”的朋友!

 

-             和孩子一起檢查孩子的 IM “buddy list”. 確認孩子可以描述出每一個ID所代表的是誰.

 

-        65%的意外都是在聊天室裏發生的!²

 

-             告訴孩子, 如果一件事, TA不會在公眾麵前說出來的話, 那, 也一定不要在聊天室裏說出來!

 

-             經常提醒孩子, 在網上說自己是什麽樣子的人, 很可能事實中並不是那個樣子的.

 

-             強調: 在大多數情況下, 去見 “網友”是不安全的.

 

如果你發現了問題, 怎麽辦?

 

-        要對孩子平時的行為習慣, 言談舉止的變化所有敏感.

 

-         要檢查電話帳單上的陌生電話號碼, 尤其是孩子的手機帳單. 檢查孩子的不能解釋來源的不正常的禮物.

 

-        要對孩子表現出你的關心, 認真傾聽TA們的傾訴, 如果聽到孩子說起一些你認為不好的網上經曆, 或你認為不妥的行為, 要保持冷靜.

 

-        不要恐嚇孩子取消TA們上網的權利.

 

-        用孩子發生的小錯誤來和孩子商討安全措施, 強調網上的人在事實中很可能不是那樣的.

 

^{1, 2} : 數據來源於David Finkelhor, Kimberly J. Mitchell, and Janis Wolak 於1999年對於10-17歲的遭受網上性騷擾的孩子的一份調查報告.

 

121: one to one

ADN: any day now

AFAIK: as far as I know

AFK: away from keyboard

A/S/L: age, sex, location

B4: before

B4N: bye for now

BAK: back at the keyboard

BBIAB: be back in a bit

BBL: be back later

BBN: bye bye now

BBS: be back soon

BEG: big evil grin

BF: boyfriend

BFN: bye for now

BG: big grin

BL: belly laughing

BMTIPG: brilliant minds think in parallel gutters

BRB: be right back

BTA: but then again

BTW: by the way

BWL: bursting with laughter

BWTHDIK: but what the heck do I know

C&G: chuckle & grin

CID: crying in disgrace

CNP: continued (in my) next post

CP: chat post

CRBT: crying real big tears

CSG: chuckle, snicker, grin

CU: see you

CUL: see you later

CYO: see you online

DBAU: doing business as usual

DIKU: do I know you?

DL: dead link

DLTBBB: don’t let the bed bugs bite

DQMOT: don’t quote me on this

EG: evil grin

EMFBI: excuse me for butting in

EMSG: E-mail message

EOT: end of thread

F2F: face to face

FC: finger crossed

FISH: first in, still here

FMTYEWTK: far more than you ever wanted to know

FOMCL: falling off my chair laughing

FTBOMH: from the bottom of my heart

FUD: fear, uncertainly, and doubt

FWIW: for what it’s worth

G2G: got to go

G: grin

GA: go ahead

GAL: get a life

GD&R: grinning, ducking, and running

GF: girlfriend

GFN: gone for now

GIWIST: gee, I wish I’d said that

GMBO: giggling my butt off

GMTA: great minds think alike

GOL: giggling out loud

GTRM: going to read mail

GTSY: glad to see you

H&K: hug and kiss

HAGN: have a good night

HHIS: hanging head in shame

HTH: hope this helps

HUB: head up butt

IAC: in any case

IANAL: I am not a lawyer (but)

IC: I see

IDK: I don’t know

IHA: I hate acronyms

IIRC: if I remember correctly

ILU: I love you

IM: instant message

IMHO: in my humble opinion

IMNSHO: in my not so humble opinion

IMO: in my opinion

IOW: in other words

IPN: I’m posting naked

IRL: in real life

IWALU: I will always love you

IYSWIM: if you see what I mean

JIC: just in case

JK: just kidding

JMO: just my opinion

JTLYK: just to let you know

K: okay

KIT: keep in touch

KOC: kiss on cheek

KOL: kiss on lips

KOTC: kiss on the cheek

KWIM: know what I mean?

L8R: later

LD: later, dude

LDR: long distance relationship

LLTA: lots and lots of thunderous applause

LMIRL: let’s meet in real life

LMSO: laughing my socks off

LOL: laughing out loud

LSHMBB: laughing so hard my belly is bouncing

LTM: laugh to myself

LTNS: long time no see

LTR: long-term relationship

LULAB: love you like a brother

LULAS: love you like a sister

LUWAMH: love you with all my heart

LY: love you

M/F: male or female?

MOSS: member of same sex

MOTOS: member of the opposite sex

MSG: message

MTF: more to follow

MUSM: miss you so much

NADT: not a darn thing

NIFOC: naked in front of computer

NP: no problem

NRN: no reply necessary

OIC: oh I see

OLL: online love

OM: old man

OTF: off the floor

OTOH: on the other hand

OTTOMH: off the top of my head

P2P: peer to peer

P911: my parents are coming!

PAW: parents are watching

PDA: public display of affection

PEBCAK: problem exists between chair and keyboard

PLZ: please

PM: private message

PMFJIB: pardon me for jumping in but

POAHF: put on a happy face

POS: parent over shoulder

QT: cute

RL: real life

ROTFL: rolling on the floor laughing

RPG: role playing games

RSN: real soon now

S4L: spam for life

SAW: sibling are watching

SETE: smiling ear to ear

SHCOON: shoot hot coffer out of nose

SHID: slaps head in disgust

SF: suffer friendly

SNERT: snot nosed egotistical rude teenager

SO: significant other

SOMY: sick of me yet?

SOT: short of time

STW: search the web

SWAK: sealed with a kiss

SWL: screaming with laughter

SYS: see you soon

TA: Thank again

TAW: teacher are watching

TCOB: taking care of business

TCOY: take care of yourself

TIA: thanks in advance

TILII: tell it like it is

TMI: too much information

TOS: teacher over shoulder

TOY: thinking of you

TTYL: talk to you later

UW: you’re welcome

WB: way back

WFM: works for me

WIBNI: wouldn’t it be nice if

WTG: way to go

WTGP: want to go private?

WU: what’s up

WUF: where are you from?

YBS: you’ll be sorry

YL: young lady

YM: young man