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9/3 星期一

(2007-09-02 21:09:31) 下一個
周四和Robert的第二次約會,晚飯,icecream,電影。6點半,他來辦公室接我,在ROTI吃晚飯,看來ROTI的swordfish burger確實名聲在外,Robert也知道。然後離電影開始還有時間,於是去ColdStone吃冰淇淋,我並不是ColdStone的big fan,icecream太甜,且總是很多人排隊。還好,周四晚上人不算多,排了10分鍾而已,我跟Robert提到ColdStone的staffs以前會一邊做icecream,一邊唱他們的theme songs, 今晚好像沒有唱。結果輪到我們的時候,Robert竟然問staffs能不能為我們唱theme songs,staffs唱了兩遍,排隊的人都樂不可支,我哭笑不得。吃過冰淇淋後,去看電影,[Oceans 13],故事還可以,George Clooney還是一如既往的迷人,相比之下,Matt Damon就顯得太嫩了。最後,在車站say goodbye, I thought it gonna be a good night kiss or hug, but it didnt happen, I was a little confused. Later talked with 2 dating experts, --Dave and George, about this matter, but they gave totally different opinions. Dave thinks, Robert is well self-disciplined, and being a gentleman, shows the respect for me, blah blah...(省略500字)So Dave suggests me to make the move. But George said, this guy is looking for a wife, so he wanna make some mental connection first, a guy at that age wouldnt think of sex as much as young guys do, so, just enjoy the lust-less dating first. LOL! Well, so far, the dating is really cool, I dont have to worry about anything, Robert arranges all, restaurants, movies... In this way, mature guys are much much better than young guys who never get things arranged well. I feel I am being taken good care of, I thought I would hate this feeling, but surprisingly, I do enjoy it quite much, very relieved. And what gonna happen next? I dont know, I cant predict in this case, since Robert is quite different from those young guys I had been dating with, he is out of the pattern. We will see.

周六去shopping,終於到9月,不用信用卡一整月的目標已達成,於是解禁,又開始猛刷卡。周日上午加班,順便去看了新的辦公室,shabby,沒辦法,我以往待的辦公樓基本都是最新最fancy的,自然落差很大。S也有同感,he from a big bank, banks have great offices. 無所謂啦,隻要賺錢就好,我們很快還會再搬的。

下午和Dave去秋葉原閑逛,他要買新的laptop,讓我幫忙看,我趁機訛他consulting fee. 然後在咖啡店的open terrace坐著聊天,我和Dave的關係很relaxing,可以無所不談,而且我每次見他都不用化妝,隨便抓件t-shirt,短褲,拖鞋,棒球帽,舒服無比。結果Dave一見我就問,怎麽穿著pajama就出來了... He is getting back with his ex-wife, seems they get along well now, but I can tell Dave has some confusion, well, if you wanna be with someone, have to compromise here or there. He still laughs at my big goal, --to get married by this year, LOL.

I am still reading the philosophy book, and Immanuel Kant, his theories are quite impressive, give me a lot of new ideas. To make it short, he said, only when you can control yourself, you on your free will. I think this explains well the relation between commitment and freedom, simply, if you just follow your natural instinct, you dont make any choice with your own will, then you dont have the freedom. How cool the theory is!

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jgey 回複 悄悄話 To indeep,

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indeep 回複 悄悄話 ......if you just follow your natural instinct, you dont make any choice with your own will, then you dont have the freedom.
這句話沒看懂.不知道要表達的意思.

其他幾句,覺得有點怪,我的語法不好,隻是語感覺得好象...
1.I thought I would hate this feeling->I have thought....
2.I do enjoy it quite much -> very much or quite well?
3.Robert is quite different from those young guys I had been dating with.->....I had been dated,or I have dated?
4.seems they get along well now,-> ...getg alone with well?
5.but I can tell Dave has some confusion-> confusions?
6.only when you can control yourself, you on your free will
-> you are on your free will?
看JGEY的文章就是當練英文了,寫的簡潔易懂.常用口語表達很舒服,最近也在強化英語,所以就看得細致了一些.勿介意.
elpher 回複 悄悄話 買了碟扔在家裏,還沒想起來去看...
jgey 回複 悄悄話 ??? 什麽意思???
11Roses 回複 悄悄話 Oceans 13...
你們兩個人看這樣的片子是不是有點曖昧~~~
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