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You Don\'t Need More Friends but allied

(2025-06-19 18:03:29) 下一個
@macmachine
3 days ago
Real friends know they can't come with you... and are wise enough to set you free :  that's just life.
The closer I got to change, the more people tried to hold me back.
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Very true. It hurts everybody, but the distancing still happens. I reached the same conclusion: I need allies. Friends experience pain when they anticipate distancing, which initiates the messy phase. Normally, in my experience, you just can’t do much.
 
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Because it shows them what progress they haven't made themselves and that can be confronting
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@shilpajagadeeshappa9962
1 day ago
Lesson: It happens so have the habit of walking away from people and places and find allies who support you and don’t look back because when you are closer to top of hill ( success) if u look back you will be scared and it imbalances your next move and these self architected paths are always guided by higher energies ! Keep going
Walk away, that's what i did and it ruined a decade of friendship. Was i heartbroken, yes. Do i regret it, not at all in fact I'm glad i walked away because if i hadn't, i wouldn't grow and change. I like myself rn better than i was before i walked away. I felt stuck because my dear ex best friend was afraid of changes, she wanted to stay the same but i wanted to move forward so we parted ways. Had to. The friends I've got right now are at the same wavelength as me, we nurture each other, we cheer and support each other even though it means something will change in the future.
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