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曾看過一兩本小冊子，是講LADY（我翻譯成有教養，HIGH CLASS的女士）怎樣在各種場合BEHAVE，她的MANNER應是什麽樣的。裏麵說的很多東西，我們在平常的生活中都學了，但我覺得還是提一下好。一是可以檢查一下自己是不是這樣做的，二是如果有些西方禮節以前不知，或沒注意，正好知道了。所以，我歸總了一下，抄一些重點的，和這裏的姐妹們分享。
首先定義一下什麽的女士叫做有教養，HIGH CLASS （不翻了，直接抄了）：A lady by today's definition knows that educating herself in every way possible, from higher education to the common sense manners, empowers her to become a woman of accomplishment and poise. She knows that it is not the dress size she wears or the money she possesses taht brings her satisfaction in life. A lady knows that beauty and wealth can be fleeting, but her inner character is the measure by which others will ultimately judge her as a person. Her courtesies, the high esteem in which she holds herself and others, and her sincere words of praise and thoughtfulness will reflect her strong values and place her ahead in the minds and hearts of those who know her.
所以，看一個女人是不是一個LADY，不是看她的軀殼，而是看她的言行。在壇子裏，特興上PP，要看美女的美照。好象一個ID是美女，就特受人尊敬。其實，是不是一個LDAY，要看她的發言。
因為KT裏正在DATING的姐妹多，我就先從LADY應怎樣GOES TO DATE說起。如果我們一時半會兒練不成LADY，至少可以做到LADY LIKE，給初次DATE的對方一個好印象。
在和一個人第一次DATE時，LADY應該FEEL FREE 事先問對方去哪家餐館。一方麵是知道自己應穿什麽樣的衣服，再一方麵是知道那家餐館是否是自己的CUP OF TEA，或者是否對該家的菜過敏。（有時對方來家裏接，所以要事先問清去哪）。
在餐館裏，LADY應該BY ALL MEANS ORDER WHAT SHE LIKES TO EAT。不要隻ORDER一小盤色拉，其實她很餓，想吃正餐；但同時，LADY不應ORDER MENU上最貴的菜。
很多時候，第一次約會感覺和對方沒有SPECIAL CHEMISTRY，這很正常。偶爾，覺得自己和對方HAS NOTHING IN COMMON。不管是什麽情況，LADY都應堅持到DINNER最後，然後，THANK HIM。
約會結束時，如對方幫她拉開椅子，或他倆一起離開餐館時，特別是一晚上的約會結束時，LDAY THANKS HER DATE FOR INVITING HER TO SPEND AN EVENING WITH HIM。(就按英文這麽說就好了）。
（待續）
首先定義一下什麽的女士叫做有教養，HIGH CLASS （不翻了，直接抄了）：A lady by today's definition knows that educating herself in every way possible, from higher education to the common sense manners, empowers her to become a woman of accomplishment and poise. She knows that it is not the dress size she wears or the money she possesses taht brings her satisfaction in life. A lady knows that beauty and wealth can be fleeting, but her inner character is the measure by which others will ultimately judge her as a person. Her courtesies, the high esteem in which she holds herself and others, and her sincere words of praise and thoughtfulness will reflect her strong values and place her ahead in the minds and hearts of those who know her.
所以，看一個女人是不是一個LADY，不是看她的軀殼，而是看她的言行。在壇子裏，特興上PP，要看美女的美照。好象一個ID是美女，就特受人尊敬。其實，是不是一個LDAY，要看她的發言。
因為KT裏正在DATING的姐妹多，我就先從LADY應怎樣GOES TO DATE說起。如果我們一時半會兒練不成LADY，至少可以做到LADY LIKE，給初次DATE的對方一個好印象。
在和一個人第一次DATE時，LADY應該FEEL FREE 事先問對方去哪家餐館。一方麵是知道自己應穿什麽樣的衣服，再一方麵是知道那家餐館是否是自己的CUP OF TEA，或者是否對該家的菜過敏。（有時對方來家裏接，所以要事先問清去哪）。
在餐館裏，LADY應該BY ALL MEANS ORDER WHAT SHE LIKES TO EAT。不要隻ORDER一小盤色拉，其實她很餓，想吃正餐；但同時，LADY不應ORDER MENU上最貴的菜。
很多時候，第一次約會感覺和對方沒有SPECIAL CHEMISTRY，這很正常。偶爾，覺得自己和對方HAS NOTHING IN COMMON。不管是什麽情況，LADY都應堅持到DINNER最後，然後，THANK HIM。
約會結束時，如對方幫她拉開椅子，或他倆一起離開餐館時，特別是一晚上的約會結束時，LDAY THANKS HER DATE FOR INVITING HER TO SPEND AN EVENING WITH HIM。(就按英文這麽說就好了）。
（待續）
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