我該怎麽辦?求助皮匠老師或863211老師,我是副申請人,長期在國內工作

兩條雙橫線內是我之前發的帖子的一部分和863211老師的答複,現在我有新的問題,所以就以新帖的方式發了,見諒.

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現在綠卡排期就要到了,我想回美守候,可他一再表示不願我長期在美,如果綠卡批下來,他會寄給我.這時我才覺得有點怪,為什麽他總不想我呆長,


-You had better return to US as soon as possible for waiting the I-485 approval. If you stay in China, your I-485 probably will be denied and it seems your husband hope that to happen. As long as your marriage maintains, your I-485 will be approved. So, just come back.

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謝謝863211老師的指點.我已決定回美,但不跟他住在一起,但這樣就會有問題了,我要換地址的話有可能給自己找麻煩,不換地址的話如果我的批下來了,他跟我說沒收到綠卡怎麽辦（我沒有他郵箱的鑰匙）?雖然可以在網上查STATUS,但不知道會詳細到什麽程度.另外可以再跟移民局聯係就說郵件沒收到讓他們寄到別的地址去嗎?

請各位老師和有經驗的網友多多指點,謝謝