抗爭略微進步

在讓他幫我修改英文問題上，我們吵過無數次。最近一個比較重要 DEADLINE, 昨天吵架後他還是提出可幫我。我拒絕了。因為我不想他每次幫完我又抱怨，又說下不為例。

剛才他寫信來說可以幫我，不過是早上一個小時晚上一個小時。我看他蠻誠心，也想順梯子走下來。我說
The reason why I rejected your help several times because every time
after you helped me, you complained, said negative things, or picked
on it later. These really upsets me and makes me think you actually do
not want to help me at all. You helped because you were told to do so or
you had no other choice. When I am not happy, you get affected too. If
you keep doing this, I will be reluctant to seek any help from you in
the future, which will distant us further.

If you promise you will not pick on helping me, or complain after you
help me, or say negative things after you help me (as I\'ve mentioned many
times), then I will accept your help. Otherwise I can manage it
with the help from my friends.