Elizabeth Edwards 一個了不起的母親

Washington Post staff

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Wednesday, December 8, 2010; 5:28 PM

Elizabeth Edwards died Dec. 7 after stopping cancer treatments the day before. Patricia Sullivan memoralized her:

Ms. Edwards had been a lawyer and formidable force in the political rise of her husband, who went from being a one-term U.S. senator from North Carolina to the Democratic vice presidential candidate in 2004 to a presidential candidate in the 2008 Democratic primaries. She separated from him in January.

Describing herself as the "anti-Barbie" for her real-woman figure and her serious intellect, Ms. Edwards's public stature was greatly defined by how she coped with cancer. She talked about it, wrote about it and managed the conversation in much the same way she managed her husband's political career.

Ezra Klein offered up his own take on Edwards''s legacy:

But Edwards's real impact on health-care reform was much larger than people realize. She pushed her husband to make a comprehensive and universal health-care reform plan the centerpiece of his second presidential campaign. She succeeded. John Edwards was the first of the major Democratic candidates to come out with a universal health-care plan, and his proposal, combined with the warm reception it received from major Democratic interest groups and constituencies, forced both Obama and Clinton to counter with their own universal health-care plans. (Additionally, when Obama flew to North Carolina to court Edwards's endorsement, he got into an argument with Elizabeth over the individual mandate -- an argument that, as you can see from the individual mandate in the health-care law, she eventually won.)

The end result was that the three candidates ended up fighting over who would do more to pass a universal health-care bill the fastest, which meant they made repeated promises that, in Obama's case, he eventually found himself having to keep. Without Elizabeth Edwards's involvement, the Edwards campaign would likely have come out with a more modest effort, and the Obama and Clinton campaigns would have taken a similarly incremental approach, and none of the campaigns would have made as many promises on the subject as they did, and health-care reform might never have passed.

That -- and not marital betrayal, or even cancer -- is Elizabeth Edwards's legacy. It may not be how she's remembered, and it may not be what leads her obituaries, but it's what she did. And as a policy wonk, Edwards knew full well that it's what gets done, not what gets said, that matters. I've met a lot of politicians and presidential candidates since that evening at her house. But looking back, the one I'm proudest to have known was her.

我今天看見這則新聞，心裏真是很難過。 Elizabeth 是一個堅強的了不起的女性在人生一係列的摧殘打擊下仍然尊貴地走完人生最後的曆程，為公共衛生事業，奔走呼號。為自己的孩子作好他們的母親不在了以後的準備，她是一個女人，經曆了喪子，癌症，著名的丈夫的婚外戀情和婚外女兒的事實，癌症的複發轉移，與丈夫分居。一個人在知道自己將不久於世，仍然不失尊貴，這真讓我仰視。這兩年她寫了好幾本書，今天當我聽到她自己念書的聲音，我覺得她是用母親的心在給自己的孩子念臨睡前的故事·····而我禁不住淚流滿麵····一個女人，一個母親，一個了不起的人。
我從她對待死亡的態度上，理解了什麽是：視死如歸。

Elizabeth Edwards :最後的話。

"You all know that I have been sustained throughout my life by three saving graces – my family, my friends, and a faith in the power of resilience and hope. These graces have carried me through difficult times and they have brought more joy to the good times than I ever could have imagined. The days of our lives, for all of us, are numbered. We know that.

And, yes, there are certainly times when we aren't able to muster as much strength and patience as we would like. It's called being human.But I have found that in the simple act of living with hope, and in the daily effort to have a positive impact in the world, the days I do have are made all the more meaningful and precious. And for that I am grateful. It isn't possible to put into words the love and gratitude I feel to everyone who has and continues to support and inspire me every day. To you I simply say: you know."

[DUMARTINI]

很了不起，為我們提供了榜樣----怎樣麵對挫折和打擊

然後堅定地走完自己想走的那條路。

[安娜晴天]

縱使人生艱難，也活出了自己的尊嚴。
視死如歸，人到了什麽境地才能如此。
為這樣的女子喝彩，如此真實精彩的一生，盡管如此的"不完美"。
謝謝心姐分享，問好！