mcbeal: Many people misunderstand this issue

Once the boss goes to this step, it is impossible to repair the relationship. Start t olok for a new job and fight for your own interests.

This is very similiar to a couple in a family. If one day either the husband or wife has made a firm decision to divorce, the marriage can not last long no matter how many efforts the other is putting.

Even if the boss keeps her for some time, both the boss and she can not speak freely as before. Both sides are cautions of whether the other one records the dialogues and writes down the bad words the other side speaks.

Actually comapnies are doing stupid things in this way to avoid legal issues later.

When it happened to me, I had enough time to write down every single dirty word and complaint to the company and the other people which the mean boss said in a month. I wrote down detailed time and detailed place for each event.

After a month, I sent all these evidences to HR and find back. Eventually I got more than what I expected in the battle.

You should start to collect evidences right now and be ready to fight back soon (no later than the end of January).

Happy Holidays!

Time again to head back home.