其實姻緣天定，包括土姐的閃婚。但是，如果土姐在文章裏有多

一些站在畫家立場上的悲天憫人的筆態，可能反應就沒那麽激烈。

A lover or a friend，A big thing or a small，The winner takes it all，包括以前送給情人的定情物，現在也都成為新人的戰利品。。這就是現實，命運。也是令人噓浠的地方。。。人生起伏，誰能保證自己永遠是贏家？誰能保證自己有一天不會＂someone way down here，Loses someone dear＂？

命運就是這麽殘酷。如果贏家對輸家多一份厚重柔軟的心，是不是大家都更能釋懷一些呢？

很遺憾，我不會貼歌，歌本身更有感染力。

ABBA The Winner Takes It All

I don\'t wanna talk
About the things we\'ve gone through
Though its hurting me
Now its history
I\'ve played all my cards
And that\'s what you\'ve done too
Nothing more to say
No more aces to play

The winner takes it all
The loser standing small
Beside the victory
That\'s her destiny

I was in your arms
Thinking I belonged there
I figured it made sense
Building me a fence
Building me a home
Thinking Id be strong there
But I was a fool
Playing by the rules

The gods may throw a dice
Their minds as cold as ice
And someone way down here
Loses someone dear
The winner takes it all
The loser has to fall
Its simple and its plain
Why should I complain.

But tell me does she kiss
Like I used to kiss you?
Does it feel the same
When she calls your name?
Somewhere deep inside
You must know I miss you
But what can I say
Rules must be obeyed

The judges will decide
The likes of me abide
Spectators of the show
Always staying low
The game is on again
A lover or a friend
A big thing or a small
The winner takes it all

I don\'t wanna talk
If it makes you feel sad
And I understand
You\'ve come to shake my hand
I apologize
If it makes you feel bad
Seeing me so tense
No self-confidence
But you see
The winner takes it all
The winner takes it all......