I would like to be quiet to finish my story

This is what I reply to people dicuss my story. I don't want to be the topic.

我不想搶別人的老公，也不覺的我們是對的。八年裏我很是掙紮。愛來臨時，很難抗拒。我不後悔我付出的愛。

我寫下來， 是想對自己這八年的感情有個交代。

我曾經多麽盼望自己的婚姻和愛是一起的。我也曾努力嚐試好好經營它。我多麽羨慕別人有一個美滿的婚姻。羨慕那些真心相愛的夫妻。

婚外情是很辛苦和不得已的選擇。不到萬不得已千萬不要涉足。 尤其你真的愛他又不想傷害別人。

我不想給婚外情正名， 我隻想講一個真情故事和記錄自己的感情經曆。

[梔子花坡]

I would like to think life is journey, just like taking a train.

There are always passenger sit besides you during the whole train journey. Someone comes and sit besides for couple of hours. Some sits besides you for one or two days. But only you companies youself till the end of the journey.

Therefore you should love youself first. All other people are just passenger in your life journey.

[梔子花坡]

這也是你人生的一段經曆。This is your history. You can only responsible for your present and your future. You have no control of your history. No time machine in this world.

It is emotional after you finished one life period. Think about when we graduate from college, we aloso felt very emotional. But life continues. He is your history. And you have already graduate from your lover's college.

[noIQ]

相信我，即使你們修成正果，再過幾年，也會如此。不管多麽美好的感情，都會隨風而逝，剩下的是親情

[Anney08]

回複frustratedalot的評論:
thank you!

[frustratedalot]

我也覺得他和你要的很不同。尤其是他說淡漠了是因為身體接觸少了的原因，我一下子覺得很冷。

如果是真愛，他絕對不會有這樣感覺的。相反，他應該更熱切盼望你才對。

能夠被時空阻隔淡化的感情，都不純粹，放下好。

不好意思，忍不住說了幾句。

祝你以後幸福！