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ZT--What every woman should have...

(2010-02-01 17:15:23) 下一個






my best friend had fowarded me this today.



A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...   

enough money within her control to move out   
and rent a place of her own,   
even if she never wants to or needs to...   
something perfect to wear if the employer,   
or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour....   




A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....   


a youth she's content to leave behind....   
a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to   
retelling it in her old age....   
a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...   

one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...   



A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..   


a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family....   
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems,   
and a recipe for a meal,   
that will make her guests feel honored...   



A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...   


a feeling of control over her destiny...   
how to fall in love without losing herself..   



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...   


how to quit a job,   
break up with a lover,   
and confront a friend without;   
ruining the friendship....   


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW......   


when to try harder... and   WHEN TO WALK AWAY...   



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...   


that she can't change the length of her calves,   
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..   
that her childhood may not have been perfect...but it's over...   



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...   


what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...   
how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it...   



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. .   


whom she can trust,   
whom she can't,   
and why she shouldn't take it personally...   



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...   


where to go...   
be it to her best friend's kitchen table...   
or a charming Inn in the woods...   
when her soul needs soothing...   



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...   


What she can and can't accomplish in a day...   
a month...and a year...   




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bambooseven 回複 悄悄話 小雪--覺得這個東西還是挺美國的。我在這裏也算久了,挺欣賞美國MM的獨立個性的。也祝你新春快樂!!
bambooseven 回複 悄悄話 采心--是啊,這幾句也讓我想了很久。。但是誰能控製自己的命運呢?而女人愛起來又有幾個能不迷失自己呢?因此很難。雖然前半部分我基本都做到了,後半部分卻都是要一直學習的。。。
悉采心 回複 悄悄話 竹妹妹,過來品你的好文字,這段讓我想了很久:a feeling of control over her destiny... how to fall in love without losing herself..

過年好!期待你更多的時裝佳作!

qianqiuxue 回複 悄悄話 祝竹MM新春大吉大利,萬事如意!
qianqiuxue 回複 悄悄話 這麽多應該呢,恩,當作目標一個去完成也好,嗬嗬。
bambooseven 回複 悄悄話 :)) we need men to love and be loved..... yeah??
白玫瑰花 回複 悄悄話 女人都有了,還要男人幹什麽?嗬嗬!
bambooseven 回複 悄悄話 haha...i do have about half some of these things but still learning about the other half, especially how to love...i guess that's a life long lesson:))
雪冰月 回複 悄悄話 我還有很多沒有呢,嗬嗬
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