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哭！真的想離婚！
來源: 千金一笑 於 08-03-13 06:09:28
今天我和他因為工作上的事情在書房起了爭執。他的母親(在我的邀請下）正在我們家visit。結果我們爭執了一會，他起身離開，結果半小時之後他繼續回書房上網。我覺得怎莫今天晚飯還沒好，就去廚房看了看,（他母親在我們這也幫我們做中餐）他母親已洗完碗了！她說他們已經吃完晚飯了！！can you believe it!!! 居然沒有叫我吃飯！！！！what kind of family is this???!!!! my parents would never do such things never ever ever!!!! even if he and I had any or even huge argument, my parents will never ever ever ever not calling him for dinner, or not forcing me to go call him for dinner!!!!!!! In fact, if we had fights, my parents would be even more polite and considerate toward him for he is their in-law not their own son. His mother saw me in the kitchen, and AFTER I found out they ate already, said to me that she wanted to go get me for dinner but he stopped her and ask her to let me cool down by myself!!! So he told her we had an argument, and trying to get her on his side!? Can\'t understand these two people at all!
Similar things happened in other areas of life when it comes to the presence of his family members, it\'s not this one incident that bothered me so much, it\'s a series of things, that shows me that his family culture is completely wrong--or what we Chinese would call Bu Dong Shi or not sensible. I just want to stop having anything to do with people of such breed! I can stand the fact that I\'m at least 5 times better looking than him, I can stand the fact that I\'m making the same or more money than him, I can stand the fact that he\'s not very romantic, I can stand the fact that he picks his teeth like crazy after eating...etc, but I can\'t stand his family\'s culture. want a divorce, JM men, please tell me, is this a scary or crazy thought??????? Am I crazy wanting a divorce because of these type of things????? Am I really going crazy????!!!! help please!
來源: 千金一笑 於 08-03-13 06:09:28
今天我和他因為工作上的事情在書房起了爭執。他的母親(在我的邀請下）正在我們家visit。結果我們爭執了一會，他起身離開，結果半小時之後他繼續回書房上網。我覺得怎莫今天晚飯還沒好，就去廚房看了看,（他母親在我們這也幫我們做中餐）他母親已洗完碗了！她說他們已經吃完晚飯了！！can you believe it!!! 居然沒有叫我吃飯！！！！what kind of family is this???!!!! my parents would never do such things never ever ever!!!! even if he and I had any or even huge argument, my parents will never ever ever ever not calling him for dinner, or not forcing me to go call him for dinner!!!!!!! In fact, if we had fights, my parents would be even more polite and considerate toward him for he is their in-law not their own son. His mother saw me in the kitchen, and AFTER I found out they ate already, said to me that she wanted to go get me for dinner but he stopped her and ask her to let me cool down by myself!!! So he told her we had an argument, and trying to get her on his side!? Can\'t understand these two people at all!
Similar things happened in other areas of life when it comes to the presence of his family members, it\'s not this one incident that bothered me so much, it\'s a series of things, that shows me that his family culture is completely wrong--or what we Chinese would call Bu Dong Shi or not sensible. I just want to stop having anything to do with people of such breed! I can stand the fact that I\'m at least 5 times better looking than him, I can stand the fact that I\'m making the same or more money than him, I can stand the fact that he\'s not very romantic, I can stand the fact that he picks his teeth like crazy after eating...etc, but I can\'t stand his family\'s culture. want a divorce, JM men, please tell me, is this a scary or crazy thought??????? Am I crazy wanting a divorce because of these type of things????? Am I really going crazy????!!!! help please!
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yijibang
2008-03-13 15:21:09
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清官難斷家務事。兒子在母親麵前都是要表現自己的媽媽是最偉大滴。媽媽嘛，覺得自己的兒子也是天下最大的。媳婦算啥？所以，不找您吃飯是自然的事情，況且，是媽媽自己做的飯。當然這是不對的。但是，您要他們母子承認錯誤，那是做夢。為這件事情離婚，說不定下一個先生和他的媽咪也是如此。那怎麽辦？記住，我們往往都是拿自己去期望別人。每個家庭不一樣，所以不必期望每個家庭都像您家一樣的懂事。一個聰明的女人是不動氣，平心靜氣的來治理，管理男人。再差的男人，隻要有了一個聰明的女人調理，都是會上軌道的。記住，要軟硬兼施，眼睛放亮一點。這是您們兩個人的家庭。想辦法做一個好的經理，把他們母子好好的manage.聰明的您，應該有這個信心的。祝您好運，馬到成功。
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