旅遊也是一種人生

90年代初在巴黎看了由Ridley Scott (雷德利·斯科特) 持導的電影《Thelma & Louise》， Thelma是家庭主婦,Louise是餐廳女招待.兩位極其普通的女人想趁周末之際,出外旅行散心.誰知發生了一係列她們自己都無法控製，無法預料的事，命運一夜之間翻轉。。。

我很喜歡這個電影，很喜歡像她們那樣的友情，Thelma感性漂亮，成日嘻嘻哈哈，快樂無比，而Louise 就像女人中的男人，果斷，冷靜，但故事發展到最後，平日小鳥依人的Thelma反倒冷靜，堅強足智多謀，卻成了Louise的主心骨了，真是生活造就人，世界上沒有什麽是一成不變的。

看這部電影很久了，可腦海裏總是忘不了這一對生死之交，旅遊是最讓我開心的事，跟好朋友一起出遊那是更勝一籌。這些年旅遊基本上是全家一起行動，和孩子一起暢遊大自然是一種天倫之樂，可樂回來了還要還有一大堆活等著我去幹，和朋友出去我就管好我自己的胃就好了，不想吃就果汁打發自己了。最近自己去了一趟中東，又開始上癮旅遊。
 
以前去九寨溝，天涯海角都是跟好朋友一起去的，現在都成了美好地回憶了，當時去完九寨溝都已計劃下一目標是西藏， 然後絲綢之路，內蒙大草原，可隨著出國，有了家和孩子，我的這些夢都有些遙遙無期了，那時還有一位畫家朋友說要一起去西藏，一路寫生一路玩去，當時去西藏那可需要很大一筆費用的。那個時候常常是快放假的那幾個月就攢下來錢了，得了工資也不亂買衣服了， 食堂打飯也隻吃素菜免肉菜，從牙縫裏省錢，有時肚子是被素得夠嗆，但一想著旅遊外出那種忘我的開心，自己就會會心一笑，再堅持一下啦。

旅遊也是一種人生，旅遊是很鍛煉人的，從計劃，買車票，行李，每天都要很有計劃，還有應急萬一的情況，當然和搭檔一起還要相互磨合，有時還要妥協，就是好朋友如果一起旅遊也要磨合妥協， 但妥協太多就會不開心了， 大家不能太計較。當然旅遊的另一大樂趣也是會碰到許多素不相識的朋友，這一切好像是彌彌之中上蒼給你安排的緣分，

最近我的死黨好友說了好幾遍了，要約我一起去歐洲某城市，就是女人們去，不帶家屬，她說她一想到這個計劃就很激動，嘿嘿，這倒是一個好主意！
 
我對生活也沒有太大的奢望，除了把孩子養育好，剩下的願望就是玩，去別人不去的地方遊玩， 越野越好。





Thelma and Louise.
The song is "The Ballade of Lucy Jordan" of Marianne Faithfull.
這首歌也是這部電影留給我影響最深之一





Thelma & Louise:Ending Scene



"The Ballade of Lucy Jordan" of Marianne Faithfull.

The morning sun touched lightly on the eyes of lucy jordan
In a white suburban bedroom in a white suburban town
As she lay there neath the covers dreaming of a thousand lovers
Till the world turned to orange and the room went spinning round.

At the age of thirty-seven she realised shed never
Ride through paris in a sports car with the warm wind in her hair.
So she let the phone keep ringing and she sat there softly singing
Little nursery rhymes shed memorised in her daddys easy chair.

Her husband, hes off to work and the kids are off to school,
And there are, oh, so many ways for her to spend the day.
She could clean the house for hours or rearrange the flowers
Or run naked through the shady street screaming all the way.

At the age of thirty-seven she realised shed never
Ride through paris in a sports car with the warm wind in her hair
So she let the phone keep ringing as she sat there softly singing
Pretty nursery rhymes shed memorised in her daddys easy chair.

The evening sun touched gently on the eyes of lucy jordan
On the roof top where she climbed when all the laughter grew too loud
And she bowed and curtsied to the man who reached and offered her his hand,
And he led her down to the long white car that waited past the crowd.

At the age of thirty-seven she knew shed found forever
As she rode along through paris with the warm wind in her hair ...