very appreciate for XDJM's idea

very appreciate for XDJM\'s idea. Right now my husband think at his age (39 year), it is the only chance that he can get to develep his career. He has a decent job in America, but he doesn\'t like. He likes social, drink alcohol, make more friends, don\'t like america\'s boring life, and just as a senior engineer. So he decided to xi sheng short family\'s life to gain his longer happy life. And ask me to stay in america for one year to get citizen for after 5 years, we will back to america, let my kids go to middle school. You know it is hard for me to take care of 2 kids with full time job. I didn\'t expect it is so difficult. In america, we live apart around 70 miles, and I take care of 2 kids, and we bought a house nearby his job because I think I will move within one year, and every weekend I will take my 2 kids driving to our house. He doesn\'t like and always angry to me that I don\'t move. right now, he went away. I always ask him what is your happy life? kids without father? wife without husband? and recently I met a lot of trouble: car, personl, job, kids\'s day care... all these trouble made me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!

I like live america and my kids like too. He doesn\'t like USA when he come. He came to usa for his phD, just earn money in recent 4 years, and I work here since I came, and easily and quickly to get GC.We also have a new big house. if we moved back to china, we will sell our new furnitures and whole staff in house which is just 2 years old. will lose a lot of money. That is what I don\'t like.and feeling is not good, but if don\'t move, it is hard for me...............that\'s why I I need your suggestion. Thank you guys again!!!!!