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關於婆婆對養孩子方法的指點

(2009-12-03 17:55:20) 下一個
我很幸運,有個非常好的婆婆。她對自己的孩子寵愛有加,對我這個大兒媳也是視為己出。當然第一次當祖母就更是對她的小孫女愛不夠。

婆婆的三個孩子都是純自然生產,她那個年代的媽媽們都喂寶寶奶粉,婆婆的三個孩子都是100%吃母乳長大的。婆婆提起來總是非常的自豪。

婆婆對我的drug free純自然生產和純母乳喂養孩子的做法非常滿意。說了這麽多,就是想先說明我跟婆婆之間的關係非常的好。

我的寶寶滿五個月了,我一直純母乳喂養,也沒有給水。寶寶非常的健康活潑。我比較喜歡讓寶寶自己決定吃和睡的養法。雖然很多媽媽們在寶寶三四個月就給寶寶加米糊奶粉了,可我的寶寶對母乳以外的食物毫無興趣,我也就沒擔心加輔食的問題。婆婆每次跟我和老公討論喂養寶寶的時候都自豪的說,“我純母乳喂孩子喂到9個月,沒加過輔食沒給過水。”

最近我發現寶寶開始對媽媽吃什麽喝什麽感興趣了。而且寶寶坐著的時候可以穩穩地脖子支撐住腦袋。我覺得是時候考慮(隻是考慮)給寶寶在滿六個月的時候加輔食了。雖然婆婆純母乳喂養到9個月老公都長得這麽高大結實,可我直覺這好像有點極端。於是找資料看過晚加輔食對寶寶有什麽影響。研究說寶寶在後半歲有一半的營養源來自輔食。加輔食過晚會讓有些寶寶拒絕吃輔食,而且決定寶寶的eating habits 最關鍵的時期是2歲以內。

有時候我試探著跟婆婆提及考慮加輔食,婆婆都說baby的完美食物是母乳。我覺得就算老公加輔食加得晚也一點事沒有,可寶寶和寶寶也不一樣啊。婆婆的意見我倒是不怎麽放在心上,孩子是我跟老公的嘛。可是我發現老公的想法很大程度上受婆婆影響。說實在的老公工作忙出差多,沒什麽機會了解寶寶日常生活的細節。今天我在skype上遇到還在日本的老公,高興的說寶寶現在對媽媽吃的喝的感興趣了,脖子也很結實,可以穩穩地支撐腦袋,寶寶可能就要ready接受輔食了。結果沒想到老公大發脾氣,說寶寶一歲之內應該隻吃母乳。

我說老公,你不能什麽都聽媽媽的,寶寶跟寶寶不一樣啊。我覺得應該讓寶寶決定自己吃什麽,你看寶寶老喜歡嚐嚐媽媽的食物的滋味,那說明她想要啊。

老公在那邊覺得我要自作主張給寶寶加輔食,都快急瘋了。

我真是無語。。。。

挺鬱悶的,寫完就發,語無倫次的見諒。
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rubyduantokyo 回複 悄悄話 回複haozi101的評論:
Thank you so much for sharing your experience of introducing solids to baby. I found it very helpful. I am amazed how similar our babies are when they were born. Good luck and glad to see you and your son are doing so great!
haozi101 回複 悄悄話 Sorry, I can't type Chinese at work. After reading some your posts, I found your baby girl was born weighing 8lbs 8oz at 41 weeks. I just had a son this March who was also 1 week late and weighted 8lbs 8oz. Looking at your b-day, we were born in the same year but my b-day was in Feburary. Plus, my husband is also American and we live in States right now.
I was not brave enough to have drug-free natural birth. My son was induced and I asked for epidual. Luckily, his birth was so easy, it only took 20 minutes push from 10cm dilation. And he is my first one.
Regarding the solid feeding, Since neither my family nor my husband's family had food allergy history, I started my son around 4 months old as suggested by pediatrician (some suggest around 6 month old). I think the purpose of solid feeding is not for nutrition, it is to teach infant solid eating habit. Especially from what you have described, your daughter has shown curiosity to your food and she has good head support, these are all ready signs for solid food. Since I started my son at 4 months and after testing for food allergy using Gerber stage 1 single puree food for about two months, I switched him to stage 2 food around 6 months old. Now I started introducing stage 3 food and finger food and table food since he is almost 9 month old. I'd like him to learn how to feed himself. It will be beneficial for him since he has been in daycare for a few months.
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