Son or Mom?

I am disappointed by Dan again. His unwillingness to touch any penny of that 2900 deposit makes me thinking that he is trying to return that money to his mom. He even told me not to buy car seat and crib mattress for our son. I can' t believe what he said. I don't understand what he is thinking. Who is more important? Why is he always so mean to his family, his son and his wife? Everytime when we talk about things related to his parents, I find that I don't understand him. He becomes so strange and unknown to me. Anyway, I guess I'd better not to expect anything from him, not expect that he will change. I have to work it out on my own, and help out with my son, and my family. I have to say, Dan, you disappointed me again. What you really want?