關於帥鍋，答唐人

貓都警醒，這是他們生存技能，帥鍋反應是正常。

關 - 如果你決定關，就堅決關到底，無論他怎麽叫。開始幾個星期會很難，會不停地叫，門一開就想跑，還會抓門口的地毯。所以要忍住，進出門要小心，在門前貼雙麵膠如果抓地毯，這樣他一踏上就粘腳就不願去了。

了解 - You can also learn a lot about the cat just by being a good observer. Open yourself up to observing the cat rather than making it what you think it should be, and you’ll learn a lot。The cat will let you know when it wants to be left alone, when it wants to eat, where it would be comfortable having its litter box or scratching post-if you are paying attention to its signals.

接觸 - 因為他是流浪貓，不習慣被抱被摸被主動接近，所以一開始要給他個人空間。如果被他抓，經常地被他抓，也是意料之中的，他隻是保護自己，並無惡意傷害你，所以也要忍住，不會永遠這樣。Don’t push too fast. Let the cat initiate interactions for the first week or two. You will need to go especially slow if the cat is fearful or skittish. If you try to force the cat to be friends before it is ready, that may cost you its trust. Don’t attempt to pick up or touch the cat if it is not comfortable with your doing so. Accept whatever amount of contact the cat is willing to offer and gradually work from there. You can try to coax the cat out of its shell by offering it food treats. Sit down in the same room as your cat, toss a food treat in its direction and wait for the cat to grab it. Next, toss a treat a little closer to you, then closer and closer until finally you are simply placing the treat on your lap or hand. But take your time doing this: Depending on how timid the cat is, it may take several weeks until the cat is comfortable taking food treats from your hand.

生活routine – 貓是習慣動物。Establish routines. Have regular routines from the first day you bring home the cat. Some of the most important routines are how often and when you play with the cat, regular mealtimes, the normal activity level in your household, and morning and evening rituals for your family and for the cat. If you’re constantly changing how things are done at home, you’re going to have a very confused cat. Established routines and attitudes help your cat learn to trust you because they know what to expect. 還有，他是自由慣了，開始肯定不習慣天天被關在家裏的生活.但一旦你決定要把他當indoor貓養，就要堅持到底，因為你懂得這樣做對他身體好，犧牲一些自由是值得的，以後可以訓練他遛貓。

體檢 – 盡快帶去體檢，打針和做絕育手術，有蟲還要殺蟲，開始被蟲咬一兩次是可能的，家裏被他灑一兩次尿也是不可避免的。

貓籠 - 有個貓籠去醫生那兒會方便得多。可以先借一個，我的第一個貓籠是同事給的。A second choice would be a pillowcase, which is more difficult for the cat to escape than a cardboard box.

貓友- 在這兒網上有許多貓友，在生活中也要有貓友， 這樣會對養貓很有幫助， 特別是本地人。你就知道哪個獸醫好，到哪去買什莫，有困難可以找人幫忙。

我的體會 - 隻要我們想好我們要做什麽，並知道我們要做的是對的，其他一切困難都是可以克服的，因此也是暫時的。住的地方小又怎樣，條件不好又怎樣， 錢少又怎樣，陪他的時間不多又怎樣， 我們給了他一個家和愛呀，還有比這更重要的嗎？有我們一天吃的就有他一天吃的，有我們一天住的就有他一天吃的，不離不散的一家人了。我的小喵的生活條件肯定不是最好，但我自信它比許許多多的比我有錢家的貓都更得寵，更快樂，也更長壽。