A 90 year old man's 45 life lessons
(2009-10-16 10:08:49)
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Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written."My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:
1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
人生不平等,但是人生是美好的
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
當你有懷疑,就往前走一小步。
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
生命太短了,不值得去恨任何人。
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch..
你的工作不會在你生病的時候照顧你,但是你的朋友和父母會,所以要和他們多聯係。
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
每個月付清信用卡。
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
你不需要每次爭吵都贏, 你要學會妥協。
7. Cry with someone... It's more healing than crying alone.
如果要痛哭,找個人一起哭會好的快很多
8. It's OK to get angry with God.. He can take it.
對神發怒是可以的,因為他能夠應付。
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
從你的第一次收入開始為你的養老存錢。
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
抵抗巧克力的引誘是無用的。
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
忘掉過去,你才可以有好的未來。
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
在孩子們麵前哭是可以理解的。
13... Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
不要拿你的人生和別人對比。因為你不知道別人經曆的路途是啥。
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
如果一段關係見不了光,你就不應該有這樣的關係。
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
任何事情都可以在瞬間改變。 不過不容擔心,因為神不眨眼。
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
深深的呼吸, 這會令你神經安靜。
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
對你沒用的,不美麗的,不開心的的事都要廢掉。
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
不能毀你的會令你更強壯。
19.. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
人生永遠都不會太晚有幸福的童年, 但是第二個童年在乎你啥時候想要,不在乎別人。
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
當你追求人生中的最愛,不要因為拒絕而放棄。
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
每一天都是特別的,以蠟燭給你浪漫,穿漂亮的衣服,不要隻留個特殊的日子。
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
作最充分的準備,然後奮勇向前。
23. Be eccentric now.. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
你可以標新立異, 不要等到老才穿紫色。
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
最重要的性器官是人的大腦。
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
沒有人會影響你的幸福, 除了你自己。
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'
每遇到重大危機的時候, 請問你自己:5 年以後,這事還重要嗎?
27. Always choose life.
永遠選擇人生。
28. Forgive everyone everything.
遺忘所有的人和事
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
別人如何看你與你無關
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
時光會醫治所有的東西,請給一些時間。
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
無論是好事還是壞事,都會改變。
32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
不要把自己看的太重, 別人也不會。
33. Believe in miracles..
相信生命有奇跡。
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
神愛你是因為他是神,不是因為你做或者不做啥事。
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
不要審核你的人生,盡力而為就是了。
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
慢慢變老比任何東西都強,比如英年早逝。
37. Your children get only one childhood.
你的孩子自由一次童年。
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
人生到最後重要的都是你深愛的。
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
每天到外麵走走,因為到處都有奇跡。
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's,we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
妒忌是浪費時間, 你已經擁有你需要的。
42. The best is yet to come..
人生的最好還沒有出現呢。
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
不管你的感覺如何,起來,穿戴整齊, 然後出現在你該出現的地方。
44. Yield.
謙讓
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."
生命雖然有彎曲, 但是生命仍然是禮物。