To Bushun1:Be more sympathetic for your step daughter

She's just a little girl. It's not easy to be a step mom but she is only 7 and she is helpless. Her own mom doesn't want her. The only mom she knows and accepts is you. You should be proud of it and show your big heart. When we look at the Hope Project pictures, our hearts go out to those poor little girls and we have tears in our eyes. Why not give some of your love to her-she's real and she's your LG's blood. She'll be the one to care for you when you are older. I have a half brother and half sister. My mom is the step mom to them. Their own mother dumped them and my father married my mom later. At first my father told my maternal grandma he would just keep two children in his hometown with grandpa after he married my mom. However, my mom helped them come to the city later after the marriage. I know this kind of family is complicated. Even though my mom is nice and my brother and sister are good, I still see my parents arguing over them. Nobody told me about this but I figured it out myself and later they told me the truth. Now I don't tell my children their aunt and uncle are not grandma's children. I choose to let them live in a perfect world. I think it's better this way. Even though my mom is still complaining about my sister and brother thinking they aren't as nice to her as I am, in my eyes I think they show more respect to her than I do. I get impatient with my mom sometimes but my sister is more tolerant than I am. I am very close to her and I have sympathy for my brother too. Later when they grew up and worked, their own mom tried to contact them but my sister asked others to tell her that she only had one mom: my mom-her step mother. No matter how many unhappy things have happened, this has given my mom the best reward for all she has done for them even though she's jealous sometimes and a little selfish too. I do believe she loves me more than my brother and sister.

So Bushun, she's only a helpless little girl and she can't make any choice. It's not her fault putting you in such difficult situation. Just take her in as your own daughter. Your kindness will be rewarded sooner or later. God bless you.