幸福 - 周慧敏

“我以前非常在意別人怎麽看我，很循規蹈矩，眼睛裏隻有黑和白，沒有中間地帶。現在我看事情有了平常心，並不覺得有絕對的正確或者錯誤。對我來說，人生每個階段，都是一個選擇。如果有條件去承擔後果，並且承擔得起，你就可以選擇。女性如何才能令自己快樂呢？

我的領悟是三點：有自愛的能力，有擔當，有照顧自己的能力。有了這些，什麽都不用害怕了。人生充滿無常，不要靠一段關係、一些物質、金錢去給自己安全感。這些外來的東西，是沒有用的，自己應該有能力去麵對人生的困難。風平浪靜，是幸運；但能夠經受每個考驗，才是幸福。”

[阿裏]

You mean "She is one of very few girls who .......".

Just stop-by to say Hi.

阿裏

[pretty_woman]

Hi blhw72! thanks for your comments.

She is very few girls who are really pretty from inside and out. Most film stars like zhang zi yi looks for old man for security however she is one of those brave girls who make life happen and enjoy her own life.

[blhw72]

Bravo. Sometimes I wish you were my therapist. :)