一個網友姐姐給我的信

Thanks for saying so!Some more details, when I asked him the reason why he wanted to leave me, he gave me two:a. I was too boring, I could not provide him fresh air for his daily needs.b. I relied on him too much, not independent.While that girl could just fit his needs at that moment.During those years he left us, his words always reminded me that: “女人當自強”in any time. Sometimes the bad thing can be turned good, if I didn't leave him, I would never think I could go to school to earn my degree. I could never think I can financially independent. Therefore, this is important quality for a woman to balance the relationship between husband and wife and maintian love life.I wish you all the best!她說的好有道理。女人沉浸在幸福中的時候，很容易把生活的重心移到愛人的身上，同時也失去了自我。而失去自我的女人又怎末會有魅力呢？這次婚姻的失敗，對我來說未必是一件壞事，年輕的時候總要摔幾個跟頭，以後的路才會走的更好。

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"男人卑鄙無恥賤格
女人英明果絕幹練"

嗬嗬, 這是從台灣綜藝節目中學來的, 博大家一笑, 男士吾惱.哈哈哈....