Marriage needs more patience, rationalities ensure the life.
So many years passed. So many things I have ever seen, read and heard, even with experience by myself, pains I cannot touch, hurts I try to recover. And now, I believe, for marriage, trust, honesty, loyalty and patience are the most important reasons, that people really can stick together from the sun's rising till the world's ending.
What ppl always want to say, the most important is the procedure not the result. But what ppl always feared are the results not the process. None can imgine what involved once becoming a family, but the results are only 2, break or together.
I cannot say, that staying together can resolve any problem and can prevent anything bad happen. In this world nothing for sure. But leaving your whole life to seek the answer, to find the way to be together, instead of jumping from one floating ice to another , Luck will be watching you more than who doesn't. We may still need to pray for whatever left but need be matched by God's will to build up our destiny. But we do our best and we will earn our life.
------2006.5.10
