WhyMoreIntelligentMen(ButNotWomen)ValueSexualExclusivityBy SatoshiKanazawa
Whetheryouareinamonogamous marriage orapolygynousmarriagemakesahugedifferenceforaman,butnotforawoman.Throughoutevolutionaryhistory,humansweremildlypolygynous. Aspecies-typicaldegreeofpolygynycorrelateswiththeextentofsexualdimorphisminsize(theextenttowhichthemaleislargerthanthefemale). Themores...[
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byMaryPipher
Allmylife,Ihavebeenmotivatedbytwopowerfulpassions—tolearnandtobeloved.Mymostintensecuriosityhascenteredonrelationshipsandthehumanspirit.I’vealwayswantedtobetterunderstandhumannature.
Asatherapist,Ihavespentmyadulthoodaskingclientstosharetheirliveswithme.Myrewardhasbeenacontinuingeducationprogramonthefoibles,flaws,strengthsandcourageofordinarypeople.Withmyfirstsevenbooks...[
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By ChristopherBadcock,Ph.D.In apreviouspost,Ipointedoutthattheevidencefromtwinstudiesstronglysuggeststhat genes exertmoreinfluenceaspeoplegetolder—notless,asyoumightexpect—andthatinmyowncasetheeffectwasparticularlynotable.Buthoweverthatmaybe,intoday’sworldgenescertainlycountformorethantheyeverhave,andforanumberofverygoodreasons.First,thereisthepointImadeinmyearlierpost:...[
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By AlexLickerman,M.D.
WhenIwasalittleboy—aroundsixorso—Iusedsomemarkerstodrawapictureofaskyscraper-linedcitystreetwithcarsrushingpast(postedtotheleft).Ishowedittomy parents,whoIvividlyrecallgushedwithpraiseandaweasonlyparentsdo.Idon'trememberherexactwords,butmymotherleftmewiththeimpressionthatI'dcreatedsomethingfarbetterthanIshouldhavebeenableatmyage.TodayI'mnotsosureshewasrig...[
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15LoveRulesforMarriedMen
1.LendaHand
Nothinggetsawomanhotterthangettingdownonyourhandsandknees,gettingsweatyand…scrubbingthegroutinthebathroom.Manupwhenitcomestohouseholdduties;itpaysoff.
2.R-E-S-P-E-C-T
Berespectfultoyourin-laws.Theymaynotdeserveit,butyourwifedoes.Doitforher.
3.Hand-Holding
Holdherhand.Often.Andifyoueverloseyourhands,holdelbows.
4.WorkatYourMarri...[
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JoelOsteen'sThisWeek'sMessage
OurdisappointmentsandtrialsarenosurprisetoGod.Hekneweverysetbackthatwouldoccurandhasalreadyarrangedacomeback.Youhavesomeonefightingforyou;theCreatoroftheuniverseisbreathinginyourdirection.Hishandoffavorisuponyourlife.Heiscrossingoveraheadofyoumakingyourcrookedplacesstraight.YoucantrustGodforvictoryinyourfuture.AslongasyoulivealifetohonorHim,Godhaspromisednothingwi...[
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The11KeystoSuccessBy JulieJansen,authorof"IDon'tKnowWhatIWant,ButIKnowIt'sNotThis"Inhisbest-sellingbook"EmotionalIntelligence,"DanielGolemanwrites,"TherearewidespreadexceptionstotherulethatIQpredicts success...atbest,IQcontributesabout20percenttothefactorsthatdeterminelifesuccess,whichleaves80percenttootherforces."Golemangoesontoexplain,"Theseotherchara...[
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Facebook,E-mail,Games,andPorn-AglimpseatouraddictiontotechnologyBy AdiJaffe
Theideaoftheinternetbeingaddictivemaydrawachuckleuntilyourealizethat compulsivevideogaming hasbeenresponsibleforsomehorrifyingdeathsacrosstheworld,includingexamplesfromChinaandSouthKoreaof addicts playingfor50+straighthoursbeforegoingintoextremecardiacarrest.With1.5billionInternetusersaroundt...[
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CommentarybyJonathanWeilApril16(Bloomberg)--AsWallStreetbombshellsgo,thelawsuitthattheSecuritiesandExchangeCommissionfiledagainstGoldmanSachsGroupInc.isaboutasbigasitgets.WhoknewthefolksattheSECstillhaditinthemtoaccuseamajorWallStreetbankoffraud?AndwhocouldhaveguessedthatGoldman’scannedexplanationforitsbehaviorduringthesubprimemortgagebubble--thatitsimplywasservingclients’needs--couldcomesoung...[
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By BartonGoldsmith,Ph.D.
Itusuallytakesusmuchlongertochangeourmoodsthanwe’dlikeittotake.Herearetenthingsyoucandointenminutesorlessthatwillhaveapositiveemotionaleffectonyouandthoseyoulove.1. Watch"TheLastLecture"byRandyPausch.Seeitonlineat www.Oprah.com.Thisisadeeplymovingsegmentthatmaybethebesttenminutesyou'veeverinvestedinfrontofacomputer.2....[
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