(attributedto)CharlieChaplinonhis70thbirthday:AsIBegantoLoveMyself
AsIbegantolovemyselfIfoundthatanguishandemotionalsufferingareonlywarningsignsthatIwaslivingagainstmyowntruth.
Today,Iknow,thisis“AUTHENTICITY“.
AsIbegantolovemyselfIunderstoodhowmuchitcanoffendsomebodyasItrytoforcemydesiresonthisperson,eventhoughIknewthetimewasnotrightandthepersonwasnotreadyforit,an...[
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4月25日,婆婆去世。這是我在她的葬禮上的發言。
IfirstmetNanny11yearsagointhebayareaattendingScotty'sgraduation.IrememberIwasnervousbeforemeetingherasIknewin-lawrelationshipscanbetough.Butwehititoffrightaway.Shewasfunny,smartandgood-tempered.Shehadabigheartandlovedagoodlaugh,justlikeherson,theoneIfellinlovewith.ShetoldmetocallherNanny.Ididn'tunderstanduntillaterthatsheisNanny,sheist...[
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AfriendrecommendedtheMasterbyColmToibintomewhenItoldherIreallyenjoyedreadingTheHoursatthebeginningoftheyear.Thetwonovelshavesomethingincommoninthatbothareaboutthelifeofanovelist(HenryJamesandVirginiaWoolfrespectively)butneitherisamemoir.Theyarefictionalstoriesbasedonthelivesofrealpeople.
InthemiddleofreadingtheHours,Iwasirritated,thinking,MichaelCunninghamwasstereotypingthethreewomen.Howcouldh...[
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Icametothisforumabout2yearsagotoworkonmypronunciation.Ihadthegoodfortuneofbeinghelpedby小千andmanyothers,inadditiontoattendingsomeprivateorgroupaccentreductionclasses(Icanelaborateonthemlaterifyouareinterested).
Nowmorethantwoyearshaspassed.WhenIsawyourquestionjustnow,Icouldn'thelpthinkingaboutmyencounterwithamuchyoungerguy(let'scallhimSamfornow)whoisnowlivinginChinaandhasn'tbeentot...[
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又感冒樂,趁機讀一下前一段練的這個段子。歡迎指點指正!
Ibelieveintheinfinitevarietyofhumanexpression.Igrewupinthreecultures.IwasborninParis,myparentswerefromChinaandIwasbroughtupmostlyinAmerica.WhenIwasyoung,thiswasveryconfusing.Everyonesaidthattheirculturewasbest.ButIknewtheycouldn'tallberight.IfeltthattherewasanexpectationthatIwouldchoosetobeChineseorFrenchorAmerican.Formanyyears,Ibouncedamo...[
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Again,mymemoryisfailingme.Idon’trememberwhenexactlythishappened.ItwasprobablyaboutayearagowhenLiyawas3yearsold.Iwaschangingclothesandshesawmyc-sectionscar.IhadconsideredthescarunsightlyandhadthoughtaboutgettingsomethingcalledScarawayhealingsheetstoeraseitbutnevergotthetimetodoso.WhatLiyasaidatthattimetotallychangedmyperspective.Shesaid:“Mommy,youhaveasmileyface!Yournipplesaretheeyes.Yo...[
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一直想寫寫小時候落下的一個傷疤,2011年的時候寫過一個開頭,後來就撂下了。最近不知道為什麽這個傷疤老被揭起,或者是因為自己的年齡越來越接近當時我媽媽的年齡了,也或者是我兒子的年齡到了我當時的年齡了,也未可知,總之最近一個月有兩次回想起這一幕都淚流滿麵,今天終於趁孩子午睡的時候寫下一點兒,算是給自己療傷吧。還沒寫完,但是找了找以前寫[
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IattendedaToastmastersSpeechContestyesterday.Thisspeech"Undeniable"isthebestspeechIhaveeverheardinperson.ThespeakerisanABC.IwastearingupandthoughtitwasbecauseIcouldrelateasaChinese.ButwhenIlookedaround,manypeoplewerethesame.Someweresniffling,somewerewipingawaytheirtears,somewereinworseshapethanme.Iguesseveryonecouldrelate.ThespeakerisgoingtoCincinnati,OhioinAugustforthefinalcontest.Iwish...[
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IfirstknewofRogerEbert,probably,intheyearof1999whenIfirstcametoSouthernCaliforniaforgraduatestudies.Inthemidstof“Friends”reruns,watchingEbertandRoeperarguingaboutmovieswasnotarelaxingpastime.Tofullyunderstandtheirpointswouldhaverequiredalittlemoreattentionfromme.Idon’tknowhowmuchIunderstoodtheirbanteratthattime,probablyabout50%,thesamepercentageIunderstandChineseWeibotweetsnowada...[
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