如果這一刻死去，我毫無遺憾

那是一個陽關道燦爛的午後。一個朋友這樣說。很多年以後，我終於體會到他那時的心情。
。。。。。。

我不再有期待。想要的，想得到的，不想要的，沒想過的，都發生過了。我坐在沙發上看書。窗外下著小雨，很輕。房間裏的燈光很溫暖，我的心很安靜。沒有期待，沒有夢想。如果這一刻就這樣離世，我沒有遺憾。

[huidaoyuandian]

My life is similar to yours. No husband, no children, and I am also not young anymore. But I have a good health and a self-supported living. I never wanted a life like this, and it is not acceptable by Chinese culture. But I have learned to enjoy it - a small independent life. I have a soul mate, even though it is not 100% real. I think, as a woman, as long as she is living a honest, self-reliant life, she should consider herself A LUCKY ONE. Her life should be celebrated, since she does not cause any damage to her surroundings. Cheer up! You are never alone.

[白菜花]

欣賞你的智慧和獨立。當然凡事都有代價，家庭有家庭的代價，自由也有自由的代價。敢做敢當的都是好樣的。

[風起]

每個人都是接受命運的安排吧，象你接受被離婚一樣，很多有了孩子的女人就是選擇被不離婚。生活很難一切按願望，也許有些時候會順風車，但是當一切想發生和不想發生的都發生了的時候，經曆便稱為一切的解釋和理由。其實看破紅塵還是難得糊塗，生活的車輪還是會繼續下去，死而無憾也算是一種境界

[Empty_Chair]

保重，祝好。

[倚恩]

能夠有這樣的想法是好的，至少它證明你是個精神獨立的人。現在太多的女人經濟獨立，靈魂不獨立。