從Lexington的殺妻案想到的

報道中說到, Cai had a daughter, and Sun has a son, The Boston Globe reported after her death. The couple met in 2013 and then married two years later, around the same time Cai moved to Massachusetts from China, according to the newspaper. Sun reportedly filed for the divorce in September, but the two remained in the same home.

https://www.boston.com/news/crime/2019/06/05/lexington-husband-charged-murder-wife

這對夫妻才四年時間就從相愛結婚， 到離婚， 殺妻。 當然殺妻是小概率事件， 但據統計，二婚的離婚率是70%。 我想， 二婚的離婚率高是因為中年人的生活習慣， 思維模式已經定型， 很難為對方去改變。 而且人到中年， 加上各自有婚前的孩子， 就更難磨合了。

我覺得擇偶， 選人品好， 脾氣好的最重要， 另外， 夫妻三觀相近, 夫妻爭吵可能會少點， 家庭會更和睦。