珍惜和孩子在一起的時光(組圖）

聖誕節快到了，

如果您的孩子還在牙牙學語，敬請您珍惜神所賜的天倫之樂。

如果您的孩子還沒有步入青少年，敬請您和孩子一起裝飾您家的聖誕樹。

如果您的孩子還在上高中，敬請您把握這即將從指縫中溜走的家庭時刻（Family time)。

如果您和我一樣，有在外地讀大學的孩子要回來和您一道過節的話，敬請您好好的享受這樣的美好時光。

因為，隻是因為
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謝謝觀賞，請閱讀我的相關文章：

孩子·，謝謝妳！      

聖誕購物的意外驚喜！

 女人啊，妳了解身邊的他嗎？

成長祝您：平安喜樂！

[吉祥一家人]

太感動了.

[成長]

各位同學：
人各有誌，還是尊重每一位的價值觀和生活態度吧，如果全世界人的想法都一樣，反倒是麻煩的一件是呢。

祝：大家上網玩的開心。

[mikecwu]

回複cat3的評論:Here's the reason: more Chinese in America will be good for everyone of us: it creates a better social environment, more political clout (more votes), a bigger Asian market, thus better career opportunity for our children, and children's children. In order to achieve bigger population, we need to have more children.

Now, most people currently don't have enough children because of misguided values. I would like to do my part to correct people's value and make more people aware of the benefit of having more children. That's why I keep posting blogs to reiterate benefits of children.

Some people like you will get annoyed by my blog, and I understand that. But this annoyance will not change your mind to have fewer children. You will not say, I had planned on having 4 children, but since mikecwu posted repeatedly on the Internet on the benefit of children, I now will only have 2 just to piss him off. In other words, my posting will not have any negative effects on our population increase.

However, it can have a positive impact on our population. When couples are debating if to have another child, if they see posting on children's benefits, whether it's the joy of children can bring to parents' life, or well being siblings can provide to each other, they will more likely to be influenced to have more children.

My goal is to do my part to build a better future for my descendants. In doing so I might annoy some people, but there is no way to get around it.

[眯眯眼兒]

回複mikecwu的評論:
你可真是生命不息，生育不止啊！
你的“語錄”讓人暈。。。

[cat3]

回複mikecwu的評論:
I don't like to see you leave the same comment for every post and for every author. That does not mean I like to have less children and will persuade other to do so. As you said, this is called speech freedom. I just want express my thought on your comment. You seem have nothing to say other than "have more children" no matter what topic is for the article.

[成長]

謝謝大家的回帖，今天比較忙，俺就不一一的回應了。

天下的父母心都是一樣，今天我們自己做了父母才知道父母心的真諦。

祝大家聖誕快樂！

[mikecwu]

回複cat3的評論: This is called freedom of speech. You can also try to persuade people not to have any children if that's your opinion, and no one will object to it. Let readers make their own informed decision.

[cat3]

回複mikecwu的評論:
Don't always try to persuade others to have more children. It's people's own choice. Everytime I see you leave your comments is encouraging others to have more children.

[R01grant]

Serously agree!

[3021]

好文，好文！好感動。就要過年啦，就想著回去，可離的太遠啦，又有第四個在肚裏，飛機不讓上呀。可還有第第回呢，往大家新年過好。

[mikecwu]

孩子帶來的幸福是任何物質都不能相比的。

我們計劃4個孩子。等最小的長大的時候，老大估計會給我們孫輩了。我們會永遠享受孩子。

如果你那麽喜歡孩子，問問自己，隻要1－2個孩子是不是太傻了？

[cat3]

Before reading your article, I just felt very bad that I lost pateince at my daughter last weekend when she couldn't memorize the piano piece. Today, I told myself I should treat her something at school when picking her up. I took her to the mall and bought her a hello kitty. She was very happy, and did very well at the piano teacher's later today.:-) Now she is asleep with the hello kitty.

Your article made me miss my mom and day. :-( No matter how close the parents and the child, like my parents and me, there will be one day that the child will leave them and have her (his) only family. :-(

And as always, happy time goes fast. The only thing we can do is cherish the present.

[眯眯眼兒]

多謝美貼，感動ING。。。

會與朋友們分享

孩子的成長隻有一次，好好珍惜。

[成長]

回複小三毛流浪記的評論:
妳，妳，妳別嚇俺啦，妳兒子才二歲妳就恐懼他離開，那我們這些“老家夥”怎麽辦？嗬嗬。

我們就是當了父母才終於明白父母對子女的那顆心，那是一顆永遠放不下的心。

問好！

[成長]

回複SINEAD4273的評論:
妳別亂說哦，我看過妳兒子，好乖好sweet，我覺得他將來會粘妳的，而且妳的LG又那麽寵妳，兒子一定不願意走遠的。

[成長]

回複麻辣教師的評論:
真的嗎？那將來如果大家能見麵，俺可是要考你的哦。
問教師好！

[成長]

回複ganster的評論:
謝謝你喜歡，問好！

[小三毛流浪記]

這隻有做父母才有的感受啊！好文！！！我的兒子才2歲，我已經很恐懼他要離開我的那一天。就像我離開自己的父母一樣。我剛剛才給自己的母親說，今年我不回來過年了。現在看到你的文字，仿佛看到了我的媽媽暗中失望的表情。因為我覺著，現在的一家就是我們三個，哎，我仿佛看到了幾十年後的我，和我媽媽一樣在歎息！謝謝你，我更珍惜和孩子在一起的日子，再累也是這麽快樂！

[SINEAD4273]

是的， 是的。

俺也這麽對自己說的。 知道兒子大了， 每年來看一次， 你就好感謝了。

剛才俺還在跟俺媽說呢， 我的兒子不會想我這樣這麽靠近父母的！

謝謝！

[麻辣教師]

太精彩了，偶要背下來O(∩_∩)O

[ganster]

awesome! Very touching indeed.