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Cup Or Coffee

(2011-09-19 13:59:55) 下一個


CUP OR COFFEE
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A group of alumni, highly established in their careers, got together to visit their old university professor. Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life.

Offering his guests coffee, the professor went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite - telling them to help themselves to hot coffee.

When all the students had a cup of coffee in hand, the professor said: "If you noticed, all the nice looking expensive cups were taken up, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is but normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress. What all of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but you consciously went for the best cups and were eyeing each other's cups.

Now if life is coffee, then the jobs, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain Life, but the quality of Life doesn't change. Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee in it."

Don't let the cups drive you. Enjoy the coffee instead.

Rebecca Lin 2011 Summer In USA

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林貝卡 回複 悄悄話 回複五弟五哥 & 緣自知音的評論:

Thanks for your comments.

Have a nice day.
緣自知音 回複 悄悄話 By concentrating ONLY on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee in it - Don't let the cups drive you. Enjoy the coffee instead.

Yeah, I agree that we need to enjoy and pay attention on both coffee and cups.

The jobs, money and position in society are kinda important but we should not forget that life mainly is coffee here, and coffee is what we really wanted.
五弟五哥 回複 悄悄話 很好的文章!
往往,我們忘了自己追求的什麽,一味的苦幹,艱辛的跋涉,為啥啊?
林貝卡 回複 悄悄話 回複漢至,nightrose & 京燕花園的評論:

問好,謝謝分享你們的觀點。
京燕花園 回複 悄悄話 The cup is also what makes each us unique...our taste. Once we had a retreat and each person was asked to bring her favorite cup. Some chose a cup with a cottage design bacause she's homey; another one brought a cup with fish design because she liked camping; mine was a cup with a boy and a girl folk art from Germany, it reminds me of my kids.

Thank you for sharing with us the beautiful story, Rebecca.
nightrose 回複 悄悄話 照他這麽說所有藝術品,裝飾品,奢侈品店都要倒閉了,因為他們都沒什麽“實用價值”呀。
問題是人們喝咖啡不隻是喝苦苦的飲料,還享受那份情調與氣氛,就好像人活著不隻為了吃飽穿暖,繁殖後代,還要有社會價值,有所追求,得到他人承認一樣
漢至 回複 悄悄話 *CUP
漢至 回複 悄悄話 是說cop of coffee? 是有點苦,但是如果有美人為伴,就剛好。
林貝卡 回複 悄悄話 回複九月獨處的評論:

I prefer tea to coffee, too. I seldom drink coffee. But I do like this article very much.
九月獨處 回複 悄悄話 I like "Cup of Tea" a little better though~~~ just kidding, Sis~~~ So nice!

每天裏來你這裏時當是我心情最好最輕鬆的一刻,謝謝姐姐!~~
林貝卡 回複 悄悄話 回複九月獨處的評論:

How are you doing? Guess what? I changed "Childhood" to "CUP OR COFFEE". Hopefully, you will enjoy it, too.

Have a wonderful week.
九月獨處 回複 悄悄話 嘿嘿,今天總算忙完啦~ 第一篇就是好棒的"童年"~~

問好貝卡姐姐,新一周快樂!~~
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