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Seven Secrets To A Great Life

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Article: Seven Secrets To A Great Life Source: Internet

A great life doesn't happen by accident. A great life is the result of allocating your time, energy, thoughts, and hard work towards what you want your life to be. Stop setting yourself up for stress and failure, and start setting up your life to support success and ease. A great life is the result of using what you get in a creative and thoughtful way, instead of just what comes next. Customize these "secrets" to fit your own needs and style, and start creating your own great life today.

1. S—Simplify. A great life is the result of simplifying your life. People often misinterpret what simplify means. It's not a way to remove work from your life. When you focus on simplifying your life, you free up energy and time for the work that you enjoy and the purpose for which you are here. In order to create a great life, you will have to make room for it in yours first.

2. E—Effort. A great life is the result of your best effort. Creating a great life requires that you make some adjustments. It may mean re-evaluating how you spend your time, or choosing to spend your money in a different way. It may mean looking for new ways to spend your energy that coincide with your particular definition of a great life. Life will reward your best effort.



3. C—Create priorities. A great life is the result of creating priorities. It's easy to spend your days just responding to the next thing that gets your attention, instead of intentionally using the time, energy and money you have in a way that's important to you. Focus on removing the obstacles that get in the way of you making sure you are honoring your priorities.

4. R—Reserves. A great life is the result of having reserves—reserves of things, time, space, energy, money. With reserves, you acquire far more than you need—not 6 months living expenses, but 5 years worth; not 15 minutes of free time, 1 day. Reserves are important because they reduce the fear of consequences, and that allows you to make decisions based on what you really want instead of what the fear decides for you.

5. E—Eliminate distractions. A great life is the result of eliminating distractions. Up to 75% of your mental energy can be tied up in things that are draining and distracting you. Eliminating distractions can be a difficult concept to many people, since they haven't really considered that there is another way to live. Look around at someone's life you admire. What do they do that you would like to incorporate into your own life? Ask them how they did it. Find ways to free up your mental energy for things that are more important to you.



6. T—Thoughts. A great life is the result of controlling your thoughts so that you accept and allow for the possibility that it actually can happen to you! Your belief in the outcome will directly dictate how successful you are. Motivated people have specific goals and look for ways to achieve them. Believing there is a solution to the same old problems you encounter year after year is vitally important to creating a life that you love.

7. S—Start. A great life is the result of starting. There's the old saying everyone's familiar with "a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." In order to even move from the couch to the refrigerator, you have to start. There's no better time to start than today. Don't wait for a raise, or until the kids get older, or the weather is better. Today, right now, is the right day to start to take a step in the direction of your heart's desires. It's what you do TODAY that will make a difference in your life tomorrow.

Rebecca Lin 2007 Autumn In USA


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林貝卡 回複 悄悄話 回複Quarx的評論:

Thank you for your compliments.

Have a nice day,

Rebecca
Quarx 回複 悄悄話 "林貝卡"! beautiful name! nice article!
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林貝卡 回複 悄悄話 回複苗青青的評論:

Thank you.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and your family,

Rebecca
苗青青 回複 悄悄話 問好貝卡, 這兩個貼子說的都有道理。我也在想明年能否花時間做些有主題的Project.

借此機會也謝謝你分享的美文美圖美樂,祝你和你的家人朋友聖誕新年快樂,願幸福平安永相隨!
林貝卡 回複 悄悄話 回複科夫的評論:

Merry Christmas to you,

Rebecca
科夫 回複 悄悄話
加一條:

女人要美麗,就要經常戀愛...
林貝卡 回複 悄悄話 回複SINEAD4273的評論:

Happy Holidays to you, too.

Rebecca
SINEAD4273 回複 悄悄話
Thats what we need to bear in mind all the time.

Happy Holidays.
林貝卡 回複 悄悄話 美心理學家公布幸福必備十大要素 來源: 健康時報

美國著名的健康心理學家戴維·邁爾斯博士最近向外界公布了他對幸福的最新分析和看法。他對幸福看法的十大要素是:

  1.必須擁有健全的身體和健康的體魄,這是幸福的基石。吃食不挑剔,說話有條理,走路穩健。

  2.切合實際的目標和期望,這是幸福的內在驅動力。一個人如果沒有目標追求,幸福的河水就會在懶散中幹涸。

  3.自尊,這是幸福的支架,也是幸福的賜予。

  4.控製感情,這是幸福的規則。過分地壓抑或放縱自己的感情,會和幸福相悖。

  5.樂觀,是幸福的源泉。保持樂觀,就能繁衍幸福。

  6.豁達,是幸福的開闊地。

  7.益友,是幸福的開心果。

  8.合群,人緣好,幸福自會來。

  9.挑戰性的工作和活動性的消遣,這樣的一張一弛,才會有幸福交替出現。

  10.團隊意識,這是幸福的蓄水池。

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