Ikeepthinking,orsay,estimatingthedifficultiesbetweenBandme.Wehadsomegoodtime,butthosetimearemorelike...lucky,wedidn'tscrewthistime...lol.Iguesstheanswerisveryclear,eventhoughIhavebeentryinghardtomakedifferentapproaches,somaybeIwouldgetdifferentconclusions.Iamnot'perfectly'happyinthisrelationship,IfeelIamkeepingcompromising,eventhoughIhadputupwithitsofar,doIreallywannakeepdoingthis,especiallyitwill...[
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Xmaswasalright,BandIspentasweetweekendtogether.Sat,webothexhausted,hehaddutythedaybefore,sobasicallynosleepatallonFridaynight,andI,drivingcourse,Xmasfoodshopping,cleaningandpreparingXmasdinner...Anyway,dinnerwasgood,everybodywashappy,andsleepinginonSundaywasevenbetter,finallywecouldrelaxabit.ItsgettingcoldinTokyo,andwestayedinforthewholeday,doingnothing,justlyingnexttoeachother,talkingaboutstuff,t...[
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Xmasissuffering...ThisisthefirsttimeIspendXmaswithB,sowedecidedtoavoidallcheesy'special'dinnerswhichhavenothingspecialbutprices.Sowestayhomeandcook,actuallyitsnotWE,butI.Hehastospenddaytimewithhisdaughterforsomefamilytradition,andIhadearlymorningdrivingcourse,itturnedoutthatIrushedtoIsetanforthefoodshopping,whichwashell.Whosaidanythingbadabouteconomythisyear?Comeon,checkouthowcrowdedIsetanis.All...[
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我無法停止思考,總是有一些事情在我的腦海裏盤轉.反反複複的想著同一件事情,但是每次進行到同一點,就無法繼續,好象電腦程序中的deadlock.我明白,是我潛意識裏不想去想,但我卻反複的逼迫自己去想.所以到了最艱苦的階段,沒有來由的終止.
Companypartylastnightwasgreat,Ihadfunandagain,verymuchdrunk.Therewasnoblackout,butstill,somepartofmemorieswasblurred.IcalledB,wetalked,Icantrememberwhatexactlywetalkedabout,...[
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FRIDAY!!!Iamgoingtovacation~~Iamgoingtovacation~~Iwassoboredyesterday,whichreallybotheredmealot.Ifelttheboredomcrawlingoutofmyskinandtryingtodrownmeinsilence.WhenIambored,IamactinglikeanADDkid,Ineedsomethingtogetmyselfoccupiedrightaway.IchattedwithKevinforabit,toldhimhowIgonnasmashhisballsandbeatshitoutofhim,thenhegotpissedanddisappearedonme.ThenanothertalkwithLuke,ohdearLuke,thepureevila-hole,sma...[
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Duringlunchbreak,Iwenttobookstore.NeedsomenewbooksformytriptoBali,lotsoftimetokillinflight,andjustincaseifIstayingsoberandbored,sittingnexttopool,readingbooksmightmakemelookabitbetter.Eat,Pray,Love,thebestsellerbook,whichhasbeenfilmedtoamoviestarredbyJuliaRoberts,issupposedtobeagoodbookforspiritualsoulsearchingorcheeringupdepressingfemalesorwhatever.SoItookitwithme,andcouldnthelpnoticingtheotheron...[
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今天是我第3次試圖寫些什麽,前幾次都半途而廢。有很多事情botheringme,butnotsurewheretostart.工作開始平淡,每天做著重複的事情,其實也沒什麽好抱怨的,工作不辛苦,工資尚滿意,老板催著我放假,因為我今年的帶薪假日還剩很多。這樣的狀況,如果還是不滿足,那真是讓人無話可說。但是,隨著工作逐漸安逸,我的滿足感卻減少了,因為不需要100%專注於工作,我的各種胡思[
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每個公司都應該有個舒服的衛生間,幹淨,溫暖,柔和的燈光,舒緩的音樂...衛生間不單是為了‘方便’,於我,那裏是最後的避難所。有時候坐在電腦前,看著不停閃爍的chat窗口,堆積如山的emails,卻沒有自己期待的那一封,疲倦,不停的逼迫自己工作卻無法提起精神,壓力到一定的警戒線,我就會躲到衛生間去。什麽都不幹,隻是坐在暖烘烘的toilet上(Godblesswhoeverinventedit[
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CompanyBBQpartytoday,washot,butbetterthanIthought.Everybodybroughtgf/bforfamilymembers,andmybf,stillfaraway,sendingmsgtosaysorryandpromisedthathewouldmakeituptome...Idon'tknow,itseemswetalkalotaboutourfuture,butwouldwereallyhaveafuturetogether?OfcosIhopethingswouldworkoutforus,itsjust...Ireallydon'thavestrongfaithinrelationship,anditmightbemyproblem.Sofar,itsalwayseasyformetofallinloveandstartarel...[
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時間過得真快,或者說我更新太慢。。。最近事情多多,煩心的事情也不少,心神不定的時候很難寫東西。在新team的工作已經開始1個月3周,磕磕碰碰的,仍在努力確立自己不可取代的位置,很多時候feelveryfrustrated,ittakesalotefforttogaintrustfrommembersinotheroffices,sincewedontseeeachothereveryday,itsnoteasytobuildupanycloserelation.Wewillhaveatestsoon,whichwastakenupbytheotherguyinmyteam,butsinceheisbusywithothe...[
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