脆弱的人容易做卑賤的事情。貧窮是一種磨難，脆弱的人因此會乞討甚至偷竊，所謂人窮誌短。孤獨也是一種磨難，脆弱的人就會因此而卑賤，忘了從何而來，所向而去。人有一時的脆弱，卻不可以不思長進。因為卑賤和幸福永遠是兩個極地。
分手了就是分手了，幾個月都不相問了。不要在這長假日孤獨的煎熬下又打來電話，這與我來說，是卑賤。[閱讀全文]
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Therealityiscrueljustasoneofthegirlsinthegroupsaid,chinesewomenover35yearsoldhavelimitedmarketamongchinesemeninthestates.ThinkingofthedreamedfamilylifeIwant,Idecidedtopursueamericanmenmarket.Therearealotofthingsyoucandotocreatethechanceofencounterofpotentialdates,suchasgoingtogym,showingupandlookingconfusedintheaisleofhomedepot,readingincoffeeshops,goingforgolfing,andonlinedating.IjuststartedandIg...[閱讀全文]
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Oneofourprofessorstoldusthatawellbalancedlifeshouldconsistofthreeparts:careerlife,familylifeandpersonallife.Well,IthinkmylifecouldbemorebalancedifIhavemyfamilylifegoingon.Butinthepast,familylifewasallIconcerned.AsawomanraisedupinatraditionalChinesefamily,"husband"hadbeenthecenterofmylife.Therewasnolifeornomoodto"enjoy"otherpartsoflifeifthere'snoahusbandaround.Icouldn'tbeusedtolivingalonehappily.閱讀全文]
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It'sagoodideatowritedownandcherishthismovingmomenthappenedtodayintheoffice.Mr.Twigisaverynicegentelman.Heisaboutsixtyyearsold,notrichbutwithverygoodmanners.Hehasbeenontimeforhiseveryappointmentandhadnevercomplainedaboutwaitingtime.Heseesmenotonlyasaprofessionalinlabcoat,butalsoayoungladywhoneedssupportandencouragement.Hiskindness,patienceandtoleranceisinsharpcontrasttomanyotherdemandingandcomplain...[閱讀全文]
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"Suckitup".IgottorepeatthesewordseverytimeIwanttocomplainaboutmylife.Nouseofcomplaining.Theonlythingthatmakesdifferenceinyourlifeandyourrelationshipisonlytofacetheproblemandfindasolution.Thesolutioncouldbebreakingup.Nomatterhowharditis,youjustgottosuckitupanddealwiththeconsequencesofyourwell-thoughtsolution.Lifeisnoteasynomatteryouaresingleorhavingone/oneswithyou.
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"試想，人的一生，誰沒有個坎坷？要正視生活，快樂麵對。惟有來自靈魂的笑，才真正是一朵永開不敗的鮮花……"Lovethewords.Tryingtolovetherealworldandrealpeople.Nothingisperfectandnothingisthatbad.[閱讀全文]
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Leavinglasvegasisamoviedescribingthelifeoftwodesperatedpeople,thealcoholicman(actedbyNicolasCage)andaprostitute.Thewholemovieisgloomy.Yourheartwillbetwitchedbytheunerasablepainofthisman'smindincontrasttothetoleranceofthiswomantoallkindsofsufferings.Intheend,theever-upper-classmandranktodeath.Andthisprostitutewomanwasrecallingthehappymomentswithhim.
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大城小事由王菲和黎明主演。很喜歡這部片子的風格，平淡的情節，唯美的音樂，浪漫的畫麵。很像王菲的歌，是一種沁人心脾的享受，也許還因為故事裏演繹的都是真情。有時候真的不願麵對現實的複雜和人性的醜陋。[閱讀全文]
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IfeltIcan'tmakepeacelivinginAmerica!Thediscriminationgotworse!EverytimeIsteppedinandoutofastore,thealarmjustwenton!IsthisawarningtomebecauseIamachinese?Isthereanassumptionthateverychinesesteals?Ifeltsooffended.Finally,Icouldn'tholdin.Inhomedepot,Iwenttotheclerkandconfronted:"What'swrongwithyouralarmsystem?It'sbeepingevenwhenIjustwalkedin!"TheclerkgirlsaidsorryandthatitcouldbecellphoneorsomethingIa...[閱讀全文]
