北德, I guess you remembered wrong person.
My family is fine in China. Nothing wrong happened recently. But, I just read your posts "little D's story" I love it very much. I even introduced it to my friends. You are a nice girl, but too nice for Bo. Try not to spoil the guy you love next time. Otherwise,they will not care about you any more. I saw so many this kind of stories happened around my friends. In my opinion, to be an independed woman and enjoy myself is more important than others. To be a "Hot single old lady" is my dream :)