U need time to calm dowm first

Calm down first, dont listen to them. Think what's the best for you and your child, and go for the next step.
But you have to calm down.

My advice, you may not like it, don't come here anymore, don't post and don't read.

Talk to a lawyer, only if you definately want a divorce, since they only care about howmuch money they can make from you, not your case itself.