i think chinese care too much about others

not ourselves. why do u always want to pay everything for ur kids? americans cut grass, do part time jobs for their piano lessons, cars, and the like.

If the marriage does not work, get the heck out of it, life is too short to suffer, otherwise like me, everyday i feel like a loser to stay in an unhappy marriage without a way out. I swear if i could get my health back the first thing i will do just to move on, but it is imcurable.

enjoy yourself first.