眾裏尋它千百度，

是她，他，還是它，重要麽？

https://www.npr.org/2015/02/27/389489102/through-the-looking-glass

昨天在車裏聽了這段廣播，上網找出來再看看。感觸很深。。

“Congo really set the standard for what social interactions should be like between me and another living being. You just can't worry about looking like a fool. You can't worry about getting hurt. You can't worry about whether you're right or not. It just boils down to wanting to be connected at all costs, at all risks. I no longer wanted to allow the permeability of my spirit to seek smaller and smaller shelters. It requires a completely open heart. I felt like I found a way to go home through the glass.”

完全敞開的心。。。很多toddle 會，對父母，對那些給予他們愛護的。。

多少人在成長中學了seek smaller and smaller shelters。。。

成人們還有那種wanting to be connected at all costs, at all risks? 那要多大的勇氣和自信？