哈佛某心理學專家:最能破壞友情關係的是表示對另一方輕蔑的一句話:

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CNBC:有一句話反映了輕蔑,也是我見過最能破壞人際關係的一句話:“我希望我們從未見過麵。”

以下是一些其他可能出現蔑視的短語:

“你毀了我的生活。”
“你真麻煩。”
“我不在乎你的想法或感受。”
“你很可悲。”
“你不值得我花時間。”
“你欠我。 我已經忍受你很多年了。”
“如果我們沒有孩子,我現在就離開你了。”
“你讓我感到惡心。”
“沒有人會想要你。”

One phrase that reflects contempt, and that I’ve seen destroy relationships the most, is: “I wish we’d never met.”

Here are some other phrases that contempt might show up in:

“You’ve ruined my life.”
“You’re a nuisance.”
“I don’t care about what you think or how you feel.”
“You’re pathetic.”
“You’re not worth my time.”
“You owe me. I’ve put up with you for years.”
“If we didn’t have kids, I would have left you by now.”
“You disgust me.”
“No one else would want you.”