我以前也會覺得是家庭教育的問題。但最近兩年在身邊認識的人中發生了一些事,才覺得除了極少數父母,其實孩子走的路是老天注定的。這個導演家裏其他兩個孩子都好好的呀。我看到幾年前這個兒子給的訪談,他很早就resent 自己不如夫父親有天分,多產。有些孩子特別ambitious,但天份或者勤奮不夠,取得的成就與自我期望之間有一條巨大的鴻溝。他們又不能自洽,常常將之怪罪在環境與父母身上,要麽吸毒,要麽自殺,要麽抑鬱。反正我是很不同意美國文化裏那種yes you can的所謂鼓勵法。
ltheater 發表評論於 2025-12-15 15:17:25 誠信 發表評論於 2025-12-15 14:51:13Trump is a pathological liar, a coward, and a villain, without any steady, consistent policies or efforts. He always provokes, and then concedes and capitulates.
He never honors his promise, never honors his presidency, and never honors his country. Especially, he never honors himself. He is a despicable loser, failing on each and every thing.
誠信 發表評論於 2025-12-15 14:51:13Trump is a pathological liar, a coward, and a villain, without any steady, consistent policies or efforts. He always provokes, and then concedes and capitulates.
He never honors his promise, never honors his presidency, and never honors his country. Especially, he never honors himself. He is a despicable loser, failing on each and every thing.
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看看你咬牙切齒麵目扭曲的樣子,我看你也仇恨川普到了精神病的地步。
BeckyLin 發表評論於 2025-12-15 14:52:00
民主黨對毒販們特別仁慈。結果害人害己。
誠信 發表評論於 2025-12-15 14:51:13
Trump is a pathological liar, a coward, and a villain, without any steady, consistent policies or efforts. He always provokes, and then concedes and capitulates.
He never honors his promise, never honors his presidency, and never honors his country. Especially, he never honors himself. He is a despicable loser, failing on each and every thing.