根據美國國家教育統計中心(National Center for Education Statistics,簡稱NCES)的數據,美國共有4000多所授予學位的高等教育機構。但《美國新聞與世界報道》隻對大約1400所學校進行了排名。應該說能進入排名前100 的學校都是很不錯的學校。我們華人孩子學習都不錯,大部分的孩子都是非常有希望進入這些學校學習,本科畢業後無論就業還是到更好的學校讀研,都是沒有問題的。但毋庸諱言,我們華裔的名校情結還是根深蒂固,遠遠超過絕大部分其他族裔。下麵是我對美國名校和名校畢業生在社會上競爭優勢的的認知。
認識美國的名校
對美國名校的定義不外乎各種排名和社會公認度。我自己比較認同以下兩種說法:
其一是從排名的角度看,下麵18所學校在世界各主要排名中都穩進前 50 名,認為是美國的名校是沒有疑問的:
其二是從美國社會傳統的公認度看, IVY Plus 學校也是被廣泛認知的:
下麵是 https://www.ivy-alumni.org/ 對 IVY + 的定義:
另外在上述學校中,以Harvard,Yale,Princeton,Stanford 和 MIT 是公認的Top 5. 在我們華界有“哈耶普斯麻”的昵稱。另外有公立常春藤的說法,由於被接受的廣泛程度不高,所以我在這裏也不再贅述。
名校畢業生的競爭優勢
前麵說過:進入排名前100 的學校,本科畢業後無論就業還是到更好的學校讀研,都是沒有問題的。那麽除了名校之盛名以外,從這些名校畢業的學生還有那些競爭優勢呢?下麵有有一些統計數據:
其一, 在美國有些高端崗位特別看重名校的學曆,下麵是一組例子
其二, 從就業後薪酬、就職公司及就都高水平研究生院等方麵看,這些名校畢業生也比那些畢業於各州公立旗艦校的學生也有著明顯的優勢
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您提及的幾所學校都很好,還有像 JHU、Rice 等也是很好的學校。
謝謝您的評論和問題!
我是會鼓勵孩子去藤校,尤其是 T5 的藤校。但我們是讓孩子自己做決定的。
我能理解您的擔憂,但回避是不現實的。我們能做的是為孩子們做好榜樣,相信我們的神會保守、帶領孩子們走正確的道路。進一步說,要影響社會、改變這些不好的信奉,就應該進去那些有影響力的地方。例如藤校等名校。
至於讀完藤校去當傳道人,隻要是出於神的呼召,理應順服。也許這就是神讓孩子讀藤校的美意。作為父母,為孩子禱告守望就好。相信神必定保守孩子們美好、卓越的人生。
順便聲明一下,盡管我家的兩娃進了T5、T10 的 IVY Plus 學校,但我們不認為自己是爬藤推娃的信徒。我們隻是盡量為孩子們做好榜樣,提供支持和保障, 在孩子們需要的時候能夠 available.
再一次感謝您的互動!有機會私聊。
如果您的孩子被信奉LGBT+和巴勒斯坦的大藤(很多如此)錄取,您是鼓勵很快很高興接受還是要考慮一下?
如果您的大藤畢業生突然不幹了,要放棄高薪金飯碗去傳道了您會咋反應?也是很高興接受還是要考慮一下?
我問,是因為接觸過一些家庭的具體例子。那幾個是典型葉公好龍的例子