Reading the following post, I gotta back track to a dialogue between Joel Osteen about his marriage of 30 years, why lasting?
He said: 1) She makes me laugh (laugh herself), and (2) We respect each other space (stay alone in your own room with time that lasts whenever she needs - she needs long time to put up makeup, a long time for shopping - you gotta wait patiently - never rush her up.
Glad to notice that Chinese realizes that now as most Chinese puts up a stone face, too serious to laugh!