每次我咕咕噥噥抱怨生活的時候，他聽了不耐煩了，就會說，well, life sucks, then you die。這種橫到底的方式，讓我反而無話可說，隻好悻悻作罷。再過幾天回頭看看，確實不過是一些不值一提的雞毛蒜皮。平淡生活，就是這種充滿sucks的樣子。上海話裏有個詞語叫“挖塞”，很難用普通話一對一地揭示出來，倒是這個life sucks能體現出那種無奈懊惱的情緒。

今天他把這首歌的歌詞發給我，意思是要我做座右銘了。嗬嗬。不過我看了確實很喜歡，那種有點無賴，卻充滿溫暖的處世態度。和大家分享----

"Big Deal"

The Dead Milkmen

Life sucks, then you die
And your soul gets sucked into the sky
Birds sing, I wonder why
You eat a bowl of cereal and sigh
You're late for your class
You're walkin' the halls without a pass

Big deal [x2]

Time flies, time crawls
You're a prisoner trapped between its claws
Life sucks, sometimes
You gotta learn to live between the lines
Your feet are on the ground
But the world keeps spinning you around

Big deal [x3]

Don't be worried, don't be down
I'll be your stupid happy clown
Keep your chin up in the air
Shake your body like you just don't care
Birds sing, babies cry
Life sucks and then you die

Big deal [x3]