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在所有的父母眼中,自己孩子就是花無缺,朵完美。我的一個朋友今天微信給我一幅畫:“我兒子畫的,在他們幼兒園得了一等獎,你懂藝術,你看看這畫兒是不是有畢加索的風範?”我端詳了半天,沒有畢加索畫作的感覺,實話實說,就是一般般的孩子畫的畫兒,如果說這孩子十歲畫成這樣,我覺得沒有什麽繪畫天賦,如果是一歲畫的,那還是對繪畫有點兒感覺的。這孩子五、六歲了,畫成這樣,也就是一般般一般般吧。 ![Drawing Development in Children ...](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQUh7i4WaY53IGNh535q5eRPDDrffGbP6qQ6g&s)
朋友又又又發來了一張畫作: “這是孩子剛學了一年的畫畫,就畫成這樣,有意境吧?我準備把這幅畫裝框掛起來,牛哥,您說這幅畫作用什麽框子好呀?” 有意境,有意境 。。。。。。 我還能說什麽呢? 我也曾經被請去聽朋友孩子彈鋼琴。父母一臉的興奮,照相錄影忙前忙後的,孩子彈的平鋪直敘,對曲子沒有理解,就是按照譜子彈,錯兒也不算太多,彈的水平也屬於中等,但是,這家父母那個驕傲呀,仿佛孩子馬上就成為藝術家了。 ![Piano 2nd Prize Trophy - Charleston 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驕傲的父母接連不斷地給我發來孩子在鋼琴上麵的成就,我連實話都不敢說了。 當我們對一件事情不懂的時候,就不知道這個事情的水有多深。當年我女兒打網球,有一個教練過來說:“我覺得你女兒打網球很有前途,如果你需要我當你女兒的教練,我可以教她。我的女兒也打網球,去年拿了三個USTA Open比賽的冠軍。”我當時聽了,好崇拜呀,一年拿了三個公開賽的冠軍,太厲害了。真的動了請他當教練的念頭了。 但是,沒過多久,我女兒一個月就拿了三個USTA Open 的冠軍。回頭一想,原來以為三個Open的冠軍有多了不起呢,其實,也就是一般般。如果拿一年之內拿了三個全美 Level One 的冠軍,那應該是比較牛的。 ![gold ball award - San Diego Jewish World](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRD55NnNt7JCs5z1AFFwnt11g6_d5Fuefntucj9nxiTGAohwCkipnx-sd9kddHQYh3aLZU&usqp=CAU)
如果是參加美國青少年的網球比賽,各種大大小小公開賽的獎杯都是一般般,拿到這個金球,才算是有實力的選手。 ![Cliburn International Piano Competition 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鋼琴我了解不多,但是,如果我知道如果拿到了 Van Cliburn International Piano Competition的冠軍,那是應該驕傲一下,可以考慮進入到藝術家的領域裏麵。哪怕是能夠參加這個賽事,也應該是水平相當不錯的了。 在繪畫領域,如果你贏了 New York Art Competitions, 那你就很牛。哪怕參加一個國際的青少年藝術比賽,那也是很牛的。像我朋友小孩的那個畫兒,也就是自己的父母和繪畫老師表揚的凶。 不過,父母看自己的孩子什麽都好,那也是常情,但是我覺得,常情是常情我們必須理解,還是要符合一些常理。還是要正確地看待自己的孩子以及自己孩子的天賦和才能。想當年我女兒打網球的時候,也有教練忽悠我說我女兒以後將會是溫網冠軍美網冠軍奧王冠軍什麽的,我聽著教練說的,雖然心裏美滋滋的,但是腦子還是非常清醒的。 由於我腦子的清醒,我沒有讓孩子棄學從網,也沒有逼孩子走掙大錢的職業網球路。現在回過頭來看,咱自己的娃也就是一個普通娃,雖然也有鋼琴娃那樣的鋼琴trophy,雖然也有藝術娃那樣的繪畫獎杯,還有各種網球冠軍,但是,也和她那一千多名同學一起畢業,也就是一個普普通通的大學畢業生。 愛自己的孩子沒錯,寵自己的孩子沒錯,對自己的孩子有很高的期待沒錯,但是,父母需要橫向的看一看,看看別人家的孩子在天賦上麵,在努力上麵比自己的孩子強多少。認清楚自己孩子的能力,能夠避免將來的失望。 ![](/upload/album/8a/d8/60/9c070e1d6946X0RVvsnm.jpg)
這幅名字也叫《Ring》的作品是我2017年,是當著遠方的老王的麵在Oregon用我的 Canon EOS-I D Mark III 拍攝的日全食照片,用的還不是紅圈鏡頭,有天賦吧?看了那麽多日全食的照片,我覺得我這張照片應該排在前一名,哈哈哈。 正確認識自己,正確認識自己的孩子,是智商高的表現。 扯呼了 。。。。。。 《版權這個這個所有,翻印那個那個不究》 |