最近這幾天閑的沒事兒,退了不少無聊的微信群,刪了很多超過三個月不聯係的微信朋友,自己的時間忽悠的一下就多了起來。於是就審視一下自己過去這十年:有過什麽進步?有過哪些收獲?有些什麽進展?犯過什麽錯誤?走過什麽彎路?然後計劃一下在未來的十年怎麽樣完美自己的人生。 拿一張大大的紙鋪在桌子上一分兩邊,左邊是缺點,右邊是優點,左邊是失誤,右邊是收獲。很快,我就寫滿了密密麻麻的一大張,結果發現,右邊的紙都不夠用了,隻好占用左邊的地盤。 總結一下,過去的十年,我之所以有很多收獲,那是因為我好學、謙虛、低調。我也得益於這些好學、謙虛、低調。這些收益主要表現在教育孩子方麵。 ![性格開朗?勤奮好學?簡曆自我評價到底該怎麽寫?](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSff3UzgEiut0e65_eJkQIk5TKoKbUpoAv6xA&usqp=CAU)
在我過去讀書的二十多年的校園生活中,我沒有選過如何教育孩子的課程,也沒有研究過如何教育孩子、培養孩子。在我的知識層麵中,教育孩子是一個空白。但是,有了孩子之後,自己的孩子畢竟是需要好好教育,好好培養的,於是,在這個過程中,我努力學習,除了研究美國的教育體係、學校結構和教育方法之外,還悉心聽取有經驗父母們的意見和經驗。去粗取精去偽存真廣種薄收認真分析,把美國教育係統和有經驗的父母所總結的精華,運用到我自己的教育過程中。在此,我非常感謝所有給過我建議和意見的學校、朋友,書籍、視頻和圖書館。 ![你以為的“謙虛”,其實是一種“謙卑”!_手機網易網](data:image/jpeg;base64,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在這個學習的過程中,我謹記兩個字:謙虛。對於自己不懂的事情或者不太懂的事情,絕對要謙虛。現在我遇到的很多父母,就沒有我這種謙虛的素質。他們都認為他們自己是天下最牛最好最懂的父母,認為隻有他們自己才能培養出來最優秀的孩子。即使大家都可以看出來他們在培養孩子教育孩子方麵的瑕疵,他們依然固執己見,不謙虛不接受別人的意見,按照他們自己認為的所謂的“正確”方法前行。看到這裏,我覺得特別的可惜,因為,教育孩子的過程是不可逆轉的,過了這段時間,就再也回不來了。很多犯過的錯誤,都沒有機會改正了。因為,時光不會倒流。所以我覺得,謙虛是一個很好的素質,一個讓父母,讓孩子都受益的素質。記得中國有一句話叫做:滿招損謙受益,說的挺好。 ![低調,低調表情包動態gif表情圖片- 找表情上表情家](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcS9AWy53afVwHbD3lIxb11jvQt33nY2vBiUoA&usqp=CAU)
過去十年裏,我還有一個小小的優點就是低調,相當地低調。不論自己在教育孩子上麵取得了哪些進步,還是自己工作中取得的成就,都要保持低調的狀態。我覺得,低調才能讓自己進步更多。當然,低調並不是不慶祝進步的喜悅和成長的收獲。在進步的同時低調、內斂是一個讓自己有更多的成長空間和進步幅度的表現。 嗨,說了半天,全是吹牛,自己吹自己,不算,哈哈哈 ![影視綜藝明星表情搜索- 吹牛gif動態圖片- 吹牛動圖表情包下載- soogif動圖](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRPMKhb6b1gkqgvWQgL55Sq3o_Ie8CG7waMrw&usqp=CAU)
Anyway,做人還是謙虛低調一點好,如果再加上好學,那人品就完美了,哈哈 《版權人品所有,翻印很好不究》 |